Things In Life Happen But When You Love Each Other You Can Get Through It

As everybody knows I write true life stories.The names are deleted but the stories are true.Now lets just get into it.
             So just trying to get through a regular work week for some people. Can feel damn near impossible. Now add in deadlines from your boss, a marriage to somebody that means the world to you. And now you find out that your health is starting to fail you. So what do you do? Its easy in the begging first finish the job, then offer to train a qualified candidate to replace your self. Then hand in a  3 weeks notice. Because you have 2 things that must have your undivided attention.So now you must talk to your spouse to make sure the 2 of you are on the same page. Now the couple needs to talk to the doctors needed to make you well. So far so good right? wrong? You are taking lots of test and brick wall keep popping up left and right . In the mean time a strong toll is taking on your marriage. But because the love that you to share, you try to make the best of things. Even when pain and depression, tries to over shadow the special times the 2 of you should be making and try to be making love.You feel like you just can't win. One half feels like if they do it will hurt too much. The other feels like your going through enough that they don't want to ask about it.
             But it doesn't have to be that way. I know a couple who has found a way to share and spend their special moments .  You can make love and share those special moments without doing the traditional sexual act. When you love a person you can find ways to make love,that will be so full of chemistry, amazing and special  so much so,That not being able to have sex the ways you use to won't be so hard on your marriage. That in fact it may even strengthen it. Remember for better or worst, sickness and health. That's Love and That's a Marriage. Those 7words mean something.         As always remember to be adults ,and have sex responsibly

Dreams ComeTrue And True Love Conquers All

Its never too late when your in love.  A man and a woman had been together for 17 years. In some states its called common law marriage. In some other states it not.  But they have raised 2 children for whom they are very proud of. The oldest will graduate this year and the second child has 1 year left of high school. But after 17 years they decided that they are getting married. But just didn'tknow when. Their children where shocked because they never knew that their parents never been married. The reason why they never married is not important. So one of the kids decided to ask why didn't you 2 ever get married. So the father said life happen first we planned to marry and the family's didn't get along then , I got deployed your mother went to college and then  we had you and your sister. So in a nut shell life happened. I always wanted to give her the wedding of her dreams. The mother said that she didn't want it to be a strain on them financially. Besides after all these years who cares? The kids replied we care about y'all dreams just like you care about our dreams.
        So 2 weeks ago  was 17 years that the couple has been together. So their kids invited everybody they could think of to come to their church and ask them not to contact their parents. Just to attend the service and please don't be late. They talked to the pastor of their church to perform a mocked ceremony for their parents. The church was filled with people that they had not seen in years. Plus close friends and co-workers. The son brought the wedding bands and the daughter brought the flowers . The son's classmate took pictures along with other's people who used their cell phones.  A friend booked them a reservation at a nice hotel for 2 nights.
          The parents said that it was the best anniversary ever. It was simple but filled with love ones,friends  and their children made their day unforgettable. In the end money is not important, time may pass but true love conquers all.

If Your Not Scared Life And Sex After 65 Is Great

Getting a E-mail last Thursday was nice and very humbling it made me feel like good to know that people of all ages read my column. This woman wrote me to say thank you . She and her 3rd husband of 5 years, just had a anniversary 2 weeks ago. They booked a 4 day cruise and seeing they never had a honeymoon.This was their honeymoon she went and got her hair and nails done. She even wore colors she has never wore just because her granddaughter told her to try something new. Anyway she said that after reading some of my columns she got a few new ideas in her head and she was going to use this cruise to express her sexual side.She wrote in her e-mail, Thank You Having sex on a deck in the middle of the ocean is better than on a balcony over looking the ocean. She also said its very exciting seating at the captains table with no panties on and rubbing your husband hand on your thigh and then sliding his hand up a little higher to your cupcake as you call it, Wow talking about a real great turn on and he didn't even need those little blue pills. We played some of the games with the other passenger. We  even went dancing we also listened to a real nice band some couples got up and danced. But we didn't she goes on to say. Because she was stuck to her chair while her husband was massaging her cupcake. Then back to their cabin for some love making. She goes on to say that when it comes to sex you are only as old as you feel . When you have somebody who does not want to live in a box and has always lived like a arrow. Its fun to explore another life and rediscover the things that are natural to you. And you are never too old  to enjoy them. Thank you for reminding us of that. When we got home my sexy husband said to me I hope we don't need to go away to enjoy each other like we did on the cruise. I also died my hair and we both got suntans and henna tattoos.

The Pleasure Pleasing Of Cupcakes & Candybars

So to my shock and surprise a friend of mine differently miss understood what these sweet words of endearment meant. They both have 3 meanings so before there are anymore misunderstanding, I want to clear the air for anyone else who may fill as my friend did.
Cupcakes- (1)single size serving of a cake dressed up like a large cake but just enough for 1person.(2) Every woman is beautiful in her own right just like when you walk into a bakery and all of the cupcakes are dressed and on display.(3) It's also used for those of you who maybe reading my column at work or at home  and don't want people to know what your reading about.
Candy bars-(1) around the world it a treat,typically chocolate bar ergo the name candy bar.Can be sold in any store that sell snacks.(2) Every man has a candy bar sizes may vary from mini ,standard ,king size ,Dark chocolate,Milk chocolate, White chocolate. They are always full of nuts.(3)It's also used for those of you who may be reading my column at work or at home and don't want people to know what they are reading about.
Now that we have cleared that up, next week can we go back to spicing up our personal lives with our love ones. I'm here to assist you all in how to put the spark back into your relationship. As long as 2 people still love each other , there is a way to rekindle the flame you once shared. Remember just as you have feelings so do they.Respect their passion sweets so they can respect yours.