Everyone says talk about what you want, but they never tell you how!!! Dose that saying apply to everyone.?Well please let me try to help. Meet in public places only. It's been proven that it's easy to talk in public because you are forced to keep your voice down, and in a controlled environment you won't embarrassed your self or the other person. Now agree not to use trigger words that sets the other person off . Seeing that you know this person you already know what triggers them. And you never start off by saying I hate when you do this, or I don't like it when. That will turn on the war sign and that's not what you want.
Now lets start by asking each other can we talk open for a few minutes? There are some things I would like to discuss with you, But I don't want you to think I'm trying to start something I just want to talk. Then go on to say Do you remember when we use to do what ever it may be.Tell your mate that you miss that in your relationship. What can we do to get that back? They may tell you they miss some stuff to. Or do you remember when we where having our special time.? It felt like it was rushed or you really was not into it.
You are both adults communicate to each other about your feelings and listen to what the other person says. You may find that they are not comfortable doing it or they may not be comfortable with their own technique.Try asking your mate what type of things they like instead of just assuming that what your doing fells good . Because it may not or they may want more of it to get them to the breaking point.Or they may not like it at all.But if you don't talk you will never know.
More often than not its simple things that you miss. Which you can turn everyday relations to the most mind blowing and enjoyable experience ever. But if you can't talk to each other than why are you having relations with each other, With are clothes on . Why take them off?
If it's just about a climax than why bother to involve other people, learn how to do it by your self. But if your looking to have a mate, you have got to communicate.
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Wednesday, May 21, 2014
Money Is Not Romance Its Only Paper True Romance You Can't Buy, It Has To Come From The Heart
The other day I went to see my doctor, then stopped for a cup of coffee. I saw this couple laughing out loud. They looked so happy. I said hello and told them my name and then I asked if you dont mind may I ask how long have the two of you been married? The man answerd with a big smile for 57years and still counting .
So I asked if they would not mind I would like to interview them. I wright a column about to keeping the spice in a marriage. They both said yes with a smile. When they told me about their life from years ago to now. I was for lack of a better word speechless and I most say quite stoned . Just for the simple fact that .People who have been together that long and they still find ways to make each other laugh and I mean out loud.It"s amazing to me still.I asked if they had any kids They only had 1 child unfortunately they lost him in to the war in Afghanistan.I told them I'm sorry to hear that.
When this couple first married they didn't have much. But they made due with what little they had. They told me that they ate alot of soup and or just cheese sandwiches. Until he got a job as a butcher. He kept that job even though it did not pay much. Because he had a wife and soon a child to care for.The wife told me how he used to bring her a peace of fruit from a market he used to pass everyday on his way home.
But Fridays was their spacial night 2slices of pizza and a soda pop with a candle. Even though times got better for them over the years . They had a child to raise and to teach him that there is a right and a wrong way to do everything .Always remember to mind your manners no matter what others may do. Because you are a representation of your parents. They both said that their son made them proud.
Over the years a lot has changed from when they first meet. Life all around them has changed. They have been to so many funerals of friends and family that have past on . But Friday night was still their special night. Even these days they can afford a whole pie. They still get 2 slices 1 soda and a candle and some old tunes as they called it just to keep the spice in their life. He said he sometimes gets a good fresh shave & She said sometimes she may get a few pin curls. In case they may go out for the pizza. I told them both Thank You. May Their Romance live for ever. Before I left I brought them cupcakes.They gave me one back and said we still like to share.
So I asked if they would not mind I would like to interview them. I wright a column about to keeping the spice in a marriage. They both said yes with a smile. When they told me about their life from years ago to now. I was for lack of a better word speechless and I most say quite stoned . Just for the simple fact that .People who have been together that long and they still find ways to make each other laugh and I mean out loud.It"s amazing to me still.I asked if they had any kids They only had 1 child unfortunately they lost him in to the war in Afghanistan.I told them I'm sorry to hear that.
When this couple first married they didn't have much. But they made due with what little they had. They told me that they ate alot of soup and or just cheese sandwiches. Until he got a job as a butcher. He kept that job even though it did not pay much. Because he had a wife and soon a child to care for.The wife told me how he used to bring her a peace of fruit from a market he used to pass everyday on his way home.
But Fridays was their spacial night 2slices of pizza and a soda pop with a candle. Even though times got better for them over the years . They had a child to raise and to teach him that there is a right and a wrong way to do everything .Always remember to mind your manners no matter what others may do. Because you are a representation of your parents. They both said that their son made them proud.
Over the years a lot has changed from when they first meet. Life all around them has changed. They have been to so many funerals of friends and family that have past on . But Friday night was still their special night. Even these days they can afford a whole pie. They still get 2 slices 1 soda and a candle and some old tunes as they called it just to keep the spice in their life. He said he sometimes gets a good fresh shave & She said sometimes she may get a few pin curls. In case they may go out for the pizza. I told them both Thank You. May Their Romance live for ever. Before I left I brought them cupcakes.They gave me one back and said we still like to share.
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Weather Can Change Things Learn How To Change With It
So the weather changed things a little bit outside and you have been planning this little get away for a weeks. do you chuck it up as lost or what? Lets go with the or what. Meaning start with the enviorment. You are trying to avoid the weather at all cost, and trust me it can be done. First how do you bring your get away inside? Computers are amazing you can download and print pictures of the place you planned to go to and hang them around. Next create a CD with the type of music you would like to hear. Next the food you planned to eat Now a days, you can have food from many restaurants that will deliver to you. Now about service with a smile. I am sure you can find a good friend willing to help you with your date.They don't have to talk much just serve the two of you and walk out.Come back and ask you if everything is as you requested.Go into your kitchen clean up put out the trash. Don't forget to leave a nice tip. And when you hear them say goodnight. That is your code word to let the sweet romance begin.
Going the extra mile despite the weather says a lot to your lover. So excuse your self get up lock the doors go to your bedroom light a few candles and sprinkle a few silk rose peddles all over the bedroom. Now go back to your lover and show your mate how much they mean to you. After dinner take them by the hand and lead them to your bedroom of romance and make love as if you will never be able to make love to them again.
So your get away just changed from a weekend to a Great Night and if you did it right a real nice morning with breakfast in bed. And maybe even round #2. So don't let the weather determine how good or how great you are.Learn how to change with the weather.
Cupcakes & Candy bars you know my advice all the time . Your are a Adult have sex responsibly
Going the extra mile despite the weather says a lot to your lover. So excuse your self get up lock the doors go to your bedroom light a few candles and sprinkle a few silk rose peddles all over the bedroom. Now go back to your lover and show your mate how much they mean to you. After dinner take them by the hand and lead them to your bedroom of romance and make love as if you will never be able to make love to them again.
So your get away just changed from a weekend to a Great Night and if you did it right a real nice morning with breakfast in bed. And maybe even round #2. So don't let the weather determine how good or how great you are.Learn how to change with the weather.
Cupcakes & Candy bars you know my advice all the time . Your are a Adult have sex responsibly
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
Sunsets And Moonlight Through Vacation Eyes
You are never too old or too young to enjoy beauty. So keep this in mind as you read on. Things have a beautiful view when your on vacation. You look at things differently. For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about just listen and in a minute you will see what I mean.
You get up in the morning to get ready for school or work or just to get your family out to start their day. You look at the sun and you just say it looks like it might be a nice day.Moonlight we don't take the time to look at because we have to get ready for tomorrow.
NOW VACATION EYES. when you take the time to slowdown with your love and you are no longer rushing around you can see how beautiful the sun is from the soft pillow under your head and your lovers arms wrapped around you after you made sweet love to each other and now you to are gazing out of the window. You don't have to wounder if it's going to be a nice day you al ready know it is. Now as the day moves on and you to are enjoying the scenery you look at the sky as the sun is going down and it looks as if it is full of watercolors shades of orange,yellow,red and salmon. For some reason it's so beautiful that it's sexy.
Now day has turn to night but the sky really its not black at all. It's mixed more like the deepest darkest blue ,dust of light grey puffs of color you never notice before. Yet the sky is full of light with stars so bright they look like glitter . The moon is so full that it illuminates the sky, that a over whelming desire comes over you to make love. All you need now is that soft kiss from your lover. You will be heading back to your hotel room if you can make it, to make love by moonlight. But if the sun and the moon are in the sky nomatter where you are why do you have to be on vacation to enjoy the beauty. And why is it only then we see the sexy beauty in our loved ones .
You get up in the morning to get ready for school or work or just to get your family out to start their day. You look at the sun and you just say it looks like it might be a nice day.Moonlight we don't take the time to look at because we have to get ready for tomorrow.
NOW VACATION EYES. when you take the time to slowdown with your love and you are no longer rushing around you can see how beautiful the sun is from the soft pillow under your head and your lovers arms wrapped around you after you made sweet love to each other and now you to are gazing out of the window. You don't have to wounder if it's going to be a nice day you al ready know it is. Now as the day moves on and you to are enjoying the scenery you look at the sky as the sun is going down and it looks as if it is full of watercolors shades of orange,yellow,red and salmon. For some reason it's so beautiful that it's sexy.
Now day has turn to night but the sky really its not black at all. It's mixed more like the deepest darkest blue ,dust of light grey puffs of color you never notice before. Yet the sky is full of light with stars so bright they look like glitter . The moon is so full that it illuminates the sky, that a over whelming desire comes over you to make love. All you need now is that soft kiss from your lover. You will be heading back to your hotel room if you can make it, to make love by moonlight. But if the sun and the moon are in the sky nomatter where you are why do you have to be on vacation to enjoy the beauty. And why is it only then we see the sexy beauty in our loved ones .
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