I received a e-mail after I was on Those To Watch Radio Show Live from a listener and a regular viewer of my column. The e-mail read why do we have to have sweets on the side if we have sweets at home. There are a lot of Cupcakes and Candybars who are willing to do what ever their mates want. If only their mates would only stop assuming they can't get what they want .But simply ask for what they want. Not knowing that the person they went outside to find. Has been in front of them all along. If only they would ask.
I must say that I agree and disagree, You have some people who have been telling their mates how they feel and what they want in their relationship. But their request fall on deaf ears. Then there is the flip side to that. When you can find every reason in the world not to bend or even try to see your mates point of view. Which is going to do what? Make them go outside so they may get their needs full filled.
The truth is communicate with your mates and put your cards on the table.Of what you want and don't want in a relationship. So you don't waste any body unnecessary time and effort. That they could be using with somebody who wants the same things they want. If you don't ask your mate ,you can't be mad when they don't deliver.
As all ways we are adults act like it, And have sex responsibly.
