There are only 7 days in a week. I understand that you both are busy people but finding the time to be intimate should not be a chore. I can say this, and please understand we know how to find time for the things we want to do.So why not try a change of pace for a moment. If you get off work and go home and you instantly get tired. Maybe it would be better if you two agreed to meet up after work but away from home so you don't get distracted by your everyday things that meet you when we get home.
Regardless of what the weather is like you can find something that you both can enjoy. You all can go have a cup of coffee or tea even a glass of wine or a non alcoholic beverage of some kind. The point of this time is to spend time together and not talk about work but how you thought about each other today. Now if you didn't think about each other than that means at some point.You all have got to start doing things with each other again like you used to. So when your apart you have the need Thee close to your lover. Try going for a walk and holding each others hand. Don't lead each other on the walk.Just let it happen. There was a time when you did little things like that, so why can't you do it again.
Try taking a shower together but make it interesting wash each other for a change no complaining just enjoy the way the soapy water feels all over your bodies,it's bond to send some sexual desire between you, that you will want to express your love for each other. When the show is over the intensity has increase rinse each other off and then get a towel in lightly pat each other dry .So you don't have any accidents in the bathroom walk your lover into the bedroom make sure you are considerate of each other you may still be a little bit chilly your body's need to get close together so you can warm each other up.we don't want the desire to go away. Take some warm oil and massage each others body as you did in the shower the feelings of intensity will come back. It does not matter who wants to take charge first you supposed to be enjoying each other. Kissing each other in all the right places that can only intensify the desire to make love.Remember you're supposed to be getting turned on just as much as your lover.So take the time to caress nipple and ripple each wave on the other ones body.Small butterfly kisses will put you in the mood. So enjoy yourselves and create that memory. Remember that this nights for the both of you, so don't get so comfortable that you fall asleep. Then in the morning before you leave out for work, Don't forget to give a kiss your lover tell them you had a then we enjoy about an erotic night and you look forward to doing it again.