Friday, March 27, 2015

Who Are You To Tell Me Who I Can Love

              It isn't it funny When people are not in a relationship , They had the nerve to tell you. Who you are supposed to be with . As if they made such great decisions , But yet they are still single . How dose that work exactly? They managed not to be able to keep a mate,But they have all the advice in the world . Please forgive me if I don't hang on your every word.You just don't seem as if you have a clue about relationship's from where I'm sitting. That being said don't judge people that found a way to put spice in their relationship because you don't like it or agree with it. Some people have great results from a little roll playing. It has also been proven in more than a dozen of relationship's that roll playing actually helps to in prove in  relationships. Also It helps people to communicate with each other in a way that they could not do before. Which is a good thing.
                 Remember a little bit of adventure in the bedroom is always good.A dash of daring in the bedroom can pep up your sexual routine and give you a taste for adventure. But many couples find it difficult to let go.Learn how to offload your inhibitions, then grab a piece of  the action. You're sure to enjoy the ride and your mate will enjoy the new you.  Now you might think that what I'm saying is too far fetched But I have to tell you it not. I met a man and he told me that his wife of 25 years reads my column and since she has been reading it . They have been as active as they where when they first got married. the different is they don't have to wait until their children go to sleep or go to the his parents house, He went on to say thank you for righting a column that fits adults with adult children and kids of their own.

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Please Help I'am Starving For A Cupcake Says Candybar

      When we first started out we was all over each other all the time. It was as if we could not ever get enough of each other. But some where so how it is as if we lost the spark the flame that we once shared. Now it's more like a puff of smoke. What has happen to us?What ever happen to the love that brought us both so much joy and happiness . I know things change people change. But this hurts!!! I mean really Hurts!
         Because I don't know how to fix it without sounding like I'm trying to pick a fight. I don't want it if it's going to be like punishment or a rough job that you are not really ready to do.
           Now this is a portion of a e-mail that I received. The Candy bar sounds like he can't believe that this is happening in only the time span of 5 years of marriage. He is in the military and he tries to give his cupcake everything her heart could desire,because he loves her. But now this Candy bar feels as if there is a big problem with his Cupcake. She says that he is like a puppy in-heat. He is ready all the time. I did inquire if it was possible there could be any other sweets on the buffet. He said a firm No. I asked if there has been ant major changes in their life as a whole, or separately? His answer again was a firm No. Then he said that his mother&father-in law has been staying with them ,while some work is being done on their house.
             So Now that I know all of this Mr.Candybar. Here is what I suggest to you. #1 You have got to find a way to talk about the problem you feel you have. You have to start with talking first. Because there may not be a real problem. #2 As cupcakes age like candy bars the Libido can decline. Which  in turn can change the desire for sweets. There are ways to naturally raise the libido with foods or vitamins . Or it could be #3 your in-laws. No Cupcake wants their parents to hear them enjoying sweets. Now if that is the case you need to create a adventure for yourself and your cupcake so you can enjoy each others sweets. There is also #4 if you are not putting on any new style on what your doing and she can predict each play. That means she is bored but has not said anything in fear your feelings will be hurt. So you may want to change your style or you may need to try a adventure. You can always buy a Kama Sudra book and pick a new style. She won't be mad.
                I hope that helps you both.As always have Sex responsibly Stormy Weather 69