This question keeps coming up. With a constant split decision on whether or not it's considered cheating when you are dinning out . But if you have ever heard this phrase you will know why " Eating Ain't Cheating" keeps being questioned. Try looking at it from this perspective, if you are in a relationship with someone. And within this relationship,you only giving a piece or part of sexual enjoyment. But yet you neglect or refused to give your mate the oral aspects of it. Although you are receiving it from them and you have no desire to give it to them or to indulge in it at all. Does that mean that they're not going to still want that feeling or crave that desire? It is a proven fact that if a person has received oral pleasure and they enjoyed it.They will want it again. So the answer to the question is No. Once you have had the pleasure of being satisfied in that manner you will want it again. Just like a piece of candy or fruit. You only needed to have it once, to know it's good.
Now if your first experience was not pleasurable. You may need to try it again, before you say you don't like it or want it. But if your mate enjoys it. You need to come to some common ground. Because the need is not going to Go away forever. Now if a situation arises an opportunity presents itself for Your mate to be orally satisfy In a manner that you clearly do not want to perform. Why should they not partake. Clearly you don't want to do it. You have no desire to, Nor do you enjoy it.Right? But you like receiving it Don't you? And when you want it, they give it to you. So what makes you think they don't want it .
Maybe it would be better if you could look at it as a job that you don't want to do. Now if someone else is will to take over the job for you and they don't mind. Then why not let them do it. Some people enjoy giving oral sex. You know there is a way to protect yourself and your mate from STD's even with oral. Don't you?
Oh I know why you don't want them to. You don't want it said that you can't satisfy your mate or is it, that they maybe able to do that job and more? Or is it that Pride? But if they are only being eaten then what is the problem? They are not denying you of anything. They still give you everything you need and want. They are only going out for a snack. Oh what about the commitment they made with you. Well the answer to that is , what about the one you made to them? That old phrase about It's Better To Give Than To Receive. Can't work in this case.
Don't be selfish, if you can't wrap your mind around it then you only have (3) options Learn how to perform oral, Let them get it someplace the best way they know how and you turn your head with a blind eye or Let them go. Because they need to be satisfied too.
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