Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Making Time

               Finding time for your mate , may not be an easy task. Especially when you are both on the road. Or when you both have very demanding careers. How ever, how do you find your equilibrium ?When life is so demanding and your relationship is in need of a little rejuvenation? First, you have to always find new things to do with each other and for each other. So that the time your together will be enjoyable to both of you. Putting away cell phones and social media is a great start.
             Try things like romantic showers together.  Or wake them up in the morning with a little special attention. If you know what I mean. How about a cycle or 2 on a washing machine. Lots of people have made out in a movie theater. But have you 2 ever made Love at the movies. If any of these things are too risky for you.
             Then might I suggest a candle light dinner and champagne for 2. Or a rendezvous  in  the middle of the day on your living room floor, with some music playing. I myself would like,to read some romantic poetry underneath a tree laying on a blanket with some fruit & cheese and a little wine. Trying a new recipe &cooking it in the kitchen together may do the trick. Talk about cooking something up. It's definitely a good way to spend time together.You may also want to try some sexy moves. from a Kama Sutra guide or Truth or Dare Sex games. That may also put some spice in your together time. If you have never tried this, you may also want to learn the fine art of sexy massage. All of these things can be used to put some spice and togetherness in your relationship.  You will be spending that much needed time together. You will also be creating memories and adventures that you both will find enjoyment in.
             The truth is anything worth having, Is worth working for. If you want your relationship to work. Then work on it together and watch it grow into something beautiful. This rule has proved over the years to be tried and true.
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Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Lets Talk Like Adults: GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THREE (3) THE HARD WAY

Lets Talk Like Adults: GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THREE (3) THE HARD WAY:                       When your trying to please your mate some people will go to great length. Just to please them. I mean just through cau...

GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THREE (3) THE HARD WAY

                      When your trying to please your mate some people will go to great length. Just to please them. I mean just through caution to the wind. Some people are just a little more reserved. There are also the ones who only talk about it as a turn on. You know , just to get things a little spicy in the boudoir.  But when you open some doors you can't always close them back.
                       I'm a firm believer that there are some things you should do before you are married and some things should be left until marriage. But everybody dose not share my view. But moving on . A candy bar asked a cupcake if she has ever partied with another cupcake? She said yes in my younger days why do you ask?  He said I heard you did I just wanted to see if you would be honest about it. The cupcake then ask if the candy bar had ever unwrapped  another candy bar? He yell NO!!!. What kind of candy bar do you think I am? She said relax I was just asking.Moving on , The (2) went on to dating for a few years. A few times during the smashing of sweets he ask if  she would bring another  cupcake into their show of passion. She found that it turned him on if she said yes. Just like the thought of somebody watching them smash sweets.
                       Now years later after marriage the cupcake still is being asked when will she bring another cupcake to party with them . The candy bar says he does not want the other cupcake. He just want to watch them smash sweets.  But history has shown her that bringing a cupcake into a sweets party with your main candy bar.  To many things can go wrong after the fact. When its somebody your dating its one(1) thing. But when it's your main lover or your spouse you can't help but feel some kind of way or If your not enough for your mate. Or is this a way for them to smash somebody new. Or giving your mate too much room to invite somebody else to a smash sweet party. So she has been stalling on the situation. She wants to give him a new adventure. But not sure if this is it.
                       So if you are contemplating the (3) The Hard Way. Remember that. Not all relationships can handle having a 3rd person to a  smash party. Sometimes you may need to make sure that your relationship is secure and strong. Before you add any sweets to your party. Not saying that a strong solid relationship can take a third party. But if it's not, adding another person to your relationship is not going to make the relationship better. It may make things worst.
                             As always have sex responsibly
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Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Side Dish Or Main Course You Decide

                   When you first start out dating a person it's so much fun wouldn't you say? Think about it, you do things and put up with things that in general you would not. Just think about it for a minute before you flat out say no. You do because you have a goal right? Sure I'm right. Just stop and think about it for a few. It may be many different reasons why. But the truth is that you will put up with a lot if you are trying to meet a goal. If it's a long term goal or a short term goal. You do have a goal.
                     For some it can be dinner in a nice restaurant  that may not be all that. So why spend your money if you don't have to. Maybe they look like they might give Blazzzing head.  It could be a company party that you don't want to show up to without a date. Or a gathering with friends or family. Any way what ever it is. You needed a date.
                     Why don't we make it a little more interesting . You are out doing a few errands  and you meet this hunk of beautiful Cupcake or a Candy bar. Everything about this person says you must have it. I'm just saying the scent of them sparked a nostalgia.  Even if it's only for one night. Or a few hours, what ever the case maybe you know it looks good enough for the right now.
                       Now for some of us. It's now or never. For some of us it's get in where you fit in. Others say if it was left unattended, they must not know the value. Or I will take what is available for now. Just to see how far it can go. Even if you have somebody all ready. Then We have they few that simply say . I've had my day in the spotlight.It may look good but that is all I will do and that is LOOK.
                    But this is for the people that do more than look. This is for the few people that like to sample the buffet table display if you will.  Your only going to sample it.So what do you care if it has been promised to somebody else. You don't want a big piece just a little taste. Now before you get to savor the first taste you find yourself getting another and another taste. Now look what you have done.  Now you are starting to get cravings. You got to have it. Regardless what is going on. One way or another you got to have it. You know how it goes from here. They are not all of that there are a lot of people who can do what they do . Make me feel like they did.Besides they where just something to do in the heat of  the moment. But if that is the case . Then why are you still trying to get them one more time?
                 Even if you had a understanding. Then why do you still have the need to get a piece of their sweets. You have a whole other life now. But your still thinking about them. What they maybe doing or who they can be doing it to. Good thing you shared a moment of fulfilled erotic pleasure when you did.Think about it (SMILE)   It probably will never happen again.
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