When you are in a relationship with somebody. You may find that over the years. Your concerns about their welfare and well being and needs. Have become more important in your day to day activity. Than you would like or might want to admit to it being.
We say that we do all these things because we love our mates. Nobody is doubting your love. But what ever happened to the self love, or caring about what is important to you or your needs. Well , I'll tell you what happened. It's the same thing that happens when you become a parent. Your protection, admiration,love and security for them becomes your main focus. Everything else including self preservation and personal needs becomes obsolete. Because you will do anything and everything to make sure their needs are met and that they are happy.
But what happened when you look in a mirror? You feel like you have given everything to the people you care about. But what about your needs. You have spoiled your love ones so much. That because you show such joy in their happiness. Nobody even notice that you are unhappy.Nobody even notices that you are in need of something. One would think that it would be easy to see, that you want and need the same love and attention that you give your mate.
So how do you get it when you need it? You must let them know. How ? You have got to tell them. You can not assume that they will know. Talk to your mate and let them know when your in need of their attention. Express to them what your needs are. So they can attend to your needs. Don't be angry if they don't get it right away. Keep in mind this is new to them . So tell them what you want, show them what you want. So they can please you as you please them.Work together so you can fix what has gone overlooked.
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