So you are feeling like things are just off a bit. But you can't seem to put your finger on what it is. Believe it or not this happens to a lot of people in relationships. Every day can not be smooth as silk. Very often you need a few creases in your satin, silk or lace Love Life. That is how we are able to keep the balance. It's when you try to make believe that everyday is like your favorite desert. That's when we run into problems. You see in the real world. Relationships are more like your major holidays. No matter how far in advance you plan something always seems to be forgotten. Or the meal can be perfect, but somehow you don't have enough of something. Or maybe it's the weather, and now somebody just can't make it to celebrate with you and the family. You could have been hoping for one thing and got something else. Or maybe you just spent more than you should have or you planed on spending.
Do you see how and why I say relationships are like major holidays? Relationships are special and complicated but are very much a part of life regardless of the type. So you have been in this relationship for a while. You still love this person . But you feel like you are no longer connected or have the same interest. You may even feel as if you are doing most of the compromising. And your mate seems to careless about your relationship. So , What do you do? See at this point you may feel like you have done all you can. Let me tell you, You have not done all that you can. Because if you did . You would not still be trying to figure out how to fix it. You would have thrown in the towel. And started to enjoy another major holiday.
So that leaves me to believe that you want to work on the relationship you are still in . You know give it the old college try. Am I right? Yes I am. So think about it from the other person's view point. What is it they want in the relationship. Are they getting everything they want from you? Before you say yes . really think about it. You may find that in the relationship department . You are not the person you started off being.Maybe you may want to give them a little bit more of yourself before you just throw in the towel. Try being a little more sensitive to their needs. But the number 1 thing you need to do is talk to them. Preferably some place public so you are sure you can both talk . And you won't get loud and embarrass yourselves. That way you can both voice your own viewpoint of the relationship. Remember to listen as well as talk. Or it will be a waste of time.
But know you only get out of a relationship what you put in them. They can only grow if you take care of them. You may not always the same results, but you have to try them out to see if you will get what you want.
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