When was the last time you did a self inventory ? You would think that in this day and age we could find a better way to talk to each other about the things we want from conpanionship to emotion and feelings to sex. If we took the time to figure out who we are and what we want for ourselves. And set realistic goals for ourself .We might find the person who we want to be with ,and actualy want to be with us. Stop trying to change people. As adults after 30 years of age, they are already the people they planned to be. If you are not than you need to do a self inventory.  Life will become alot easier if we think before we act.