Keeping The Spice

So I  received a email from a viewer she said 5years of marriage and sex is like watching paint dry. What can she do to spice it up? I was having drinks Friday night with friends and the question came up again about sex being boring. This guy said, that his lady just lays there like a buffett and says here.He said at first he thought she was just inexperience .But in a year nothing has changed. Another lady said that she is on another job. Her man wants her to do all the work. You know the kind!Do this ,Do that, Suck it like, and so on.   So here is a way to change some of these problems. Take sex out of the bedroom. Its not a sleeping pill. Put some adventure in the mix. There are so many lotions,powders,gels and toys on the market today.They can be fun. But sometimes the best aids are the ones we carry with us every day. Just try this little adventure. Every city has a  hotel,airport or movie theater parking lot,park your car off to the side someplace. Get in the backseat tell your lover to come join you, unless they perfer to watch alittle first. Just don't forget to turn the car off and crack the windows it can get hot fast.When you where younger you madeout in a car. Now your grown lets TURN IT UP A BIT. For my Order giver we can do a few things. First tell him you want to play a game. He can't speak 
 if he says anywords at all you will Stop! Foreplay is great so thats how we will start. But if he talks, you must Stop!! Warn him if he speaks you will STOP! your a Woman you know what your doing. You can tell when it feels good to him. If  he cant get the Rules put some lace panties in his mouth.He will get it. I mentioned before about lotions & gels use them. With your body parts massage his body, he will be into it. Don't be afraid to say what you want from him. Your supposed to be enjoying this experience together. There are 1000 was to be a Great Lover.Enjoy having sex with your lover and they will enjoy having sex with you. But first you must make it enjoyable