You Need To Know Of This Great Power I Speak Of

          Being married more than twice gives you a little more insight over those who have only been married once or not at all. This fact has been proven to be true not a theory.
           When you are active sexually and perfecting your skills you will find that the more you use it the better you will become. I must say that I agree with that statement. But my option is not what this is all about. I'm taken this information from true confession and life learned lesson. When you first start seeing a person. The way you have sex is so intense that it is so hard to believe that its you. What is it about this person that makes you feel so alive. All of the different positions you put your self in. How about all the risk's that you take, all the unbelievable chances you take, all of the unknown. Its great right? When you both cum even that has intensity. So much in fact that it damn near paralyzes both of you. MMMMMMMMMMMMMM, now that's so good stuff.
         And for the first few months, it like that all the time. Sometimes it like that for a year. The more you get the more you want. Now lets look at all the great things you do to get that particular brand of Body Paralyzing sex.  You know what I'm talking about. the showers that take 45min instead of 20. Brushing your teeth and using mouthwash and the cool mints you keep in your pockets. Just to make sure you don't get caught slipping. Did I mention bathroom etiquette. or table manners. How about all the smell good stuff you buy. Or even the simple personal care just to be with that person .
         Now lets fast forward into this relationship. You have been together 7 years. But what happen to all the special care you both took to make the other one fell like you are still into them.  How did the body paralyzing toe curling I can't hardly breath sex, turn into 15-30 min or that sideways sex because your so tired. You know the one when you have cum and now snoring while I'm still awake and unsatisfied might I add. Or how about I wish you brushed your teeth after you ate that subway sandwich or that second side of salad with the works on it. Would it had been too much for you to iron that shirt. We are going out. How about that!!
          Yet we say that we don't understand how this happen The Truth is very simple. You have each other now the extra effort is no longer needed but you still want it.
All I'm saying is that you have this great power to make someone fall  head over heels for you and you are so attentive to them . Don't let the strains of every day life change you. That great power is still needed from the first time we have that body paralyzing sex and well into our amazing I still cant tell you enough how much I love you and don't want to live without you marriage of 10 years. The Power is still Amazing. Just light a match I want to burn with you. I Still Love You.
          
   

Sex Should Be Enjoyable To You And Me

 This past Friday was a ladies night out at Guilty Pleasures N. Charleston . The turn out was great, everybody enjoyed them self.  After the party was over a guest pulled me to the side and said they wanted to ask me a question, but was not quite sure how to ask. So I said no problem you can ask me now if you would like. Anyway the question was not shocking to me at all. She explained how she is no longer enjoying sex with her girlfriend and she has become rather turned off by the sex she is receiving. Its more like they are no longer compatible. She also said that her girlfriend keeps buying bigger and bigger dildos and that only turns her off even more.  Sex is now more painful than it was before.  So I asked  her if she has spoke to her girlfriend and expressed her concerns? She said no. She can't bring herself to say the words. She is in love with her and she dose not want to hurt her. So she asked if I had an advice. So I told her, You need to love yourself  more than you love someone else. You must also stop abusing  yourself, sex is supposed to be enjoyable to you  as well as your mate. I also told her that she needs to talk to her mate. Because if she really cares about you as much as you care about her. She needs to know that it hurts when the  two of you are having sex. If talking to your mate dose not fix the problem than the two of you need to reevaluate your relationship. Because being considerate of each other feelings is one of the biggest parts of a healthy relationships whether it's heterosexual or by sexual. If you don't comunicate with your mate, you are putting yourself in the position that you are allowing another person to damage something internally inside of you. Which is also putting yourself as partly responsible for the damage done to you, because you allowed it to continue. I gave her a hug and told her that I hope my advice helped her.
The advice I gave applies to everybody. Sex is beautiful and its a form of comunication between people. But that dose not mean we are to stop speaking to eachother verbaly.

Are You Sure You Know What He Likes? or Do You Give Him What You Want?

Good Morning to Everyone, I am Back!!!!  I would like to start by apologizing to you all.  I was ill last week and unable to post. On a high note I back and feeling Great! I do hope you forgive me. That also means I have not looked at any of my e-mails at stormy.weather67@yahoo.com again  I am sorry. But I will be responding to everything over the weekend. Also I will be at Guilty Pleasures in Charleston SC on Friday November15,2013.
Thanks to the Editor and Chief at Myxx Magazine   Ms. Green.
Now lets try to get things back on track. I conducted a survey with a few adult males to find out what they really want or to put in other words What is more important to them when they are in a relationship. I must say that their answers may shock you. So many men are clueless . But a very large group of them want much more, than what women are lead to believe .
The top 5 things that turn men off about a woman  are.  #1 Bad Hygiene that also includes women coming out of the house with sleeping caps on their heads like its a hat. #2 Unkempt hands and feet they say a woman dose not have to wear fake nail, but keep them clean and shaped.nail polish should be worn l the way on or all the way off. Take the time to put lotion on your whole body and wear shoes that fit so your toes don't look like knuckles . Even when you are not wearing open toe shoes. put lotion on.  #3 They say that everybody has a bad day. But it can't be everyday so check the vibe you send out . #4  Excessive foul language. Everything  should not have curse words in it.  #5  Outlandish  ignorant loud Ghetto Girls.                                                                                        The top 5 things that turn a man on about woman are. #1 The fresh clean smell of a woman is amazing not so much of their perfume but their natural clean smell. #2  Independent & strong,This woman should be  able to hold it down on her own. When she has to, but who also know how to relinquish the role of a man so that she is able to be a woman and a lady.#3 Confident not cocky  positive assure of her self. #4 Intelligent they love it when they can talk to them and not have to explain every word with more than  8 letters in it. #5 They love it when a woman is a lady in the street but a freak in the bed.
         Every man loves sex just like you, but he does not want to be lied to if he is not satisfying you tell him show him what you like. So he is able to please you. 10 men say that they would like to have sex every day. But they want to enjoy it with you. So although every day would be Great!  2 -3 time a week is good it gives ever body the chance to desire the other and keep the fires burning between you.