What is the best part about your mate? This is a important part of your relationship so before you answer think about it. You can be in a relationship for years and still be clueless to who they are. Are you in this relationship because of what gets done for you? Or because a child was made so you kind of just stuck it out. Is it because of sex or is it you can do what ever you want and you have convinced yourself that your mate is not going any where because they need you.
Did You Hear That POP!!!!! That was the pin in your fantasy bubble. When you find your self in a real relationship, commitment or marriage. They come with high price points and I'm not talking about money. We are talking about something more valuable emotions,feelings,admiration,love we are talking about the heart. Now although it only about the size of your fist when it is tightly closed. Its very strong and powerful but at the same time very fragile oragan.
That why, whether they know it or not lovers often hold hand, When someone is dear to you and they are hurt you hold their hand to let them know you are there and they are not alone.That is a silent and nonverbal way of saying I got your heart and I wont let you get hurt.
But some place in the hustle and the rat race of life we forget to still hold our lover's hand. To let them know that I'm still with you. It may sound strange but if you where to see your mate holding hands with somebody other than you. You first response is, what is going on here?. That is because that is your hand they should be holding. You don't have to admit it your heart feels it. Because when you first got together and started this relationship without saying a word. That is your heart you are sharing.When you to where holding hands. So if it has been a while hold your mate's hand and remind them your still here.
Wow I guess In so many words you are right. I just never thought about it that way.I guess that why some nights I have a hard time falling to sleep when my lover is at work. We say good night and then they kiss the back of my hand.I smile and fall right off to sleep. Its been this way for 7 years now. I guess I need that like a security blanket in some way.
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