Men &Women alike it's not unusual for long-term couples to fall into repeating pattern. Which can cause boredom . But you don't have to. At any age this can happen, you need to know how to handle it so both of your needs are being met.That being said it's time to Break Out!!!!
Some of you may be saying to yourself, How can I change this? The answer is a lot easier than you think. You have let ,every day routine control every aspect of your life. From same meals,same conversations to the same way you make love. But I have good news to help change that.
There is nothing wrong with experimenting at any age, alone or with your mate. Vibrators and other sex toys can spark up energy for men and women alike. Once you get your juices flowing again with masturbation your desire to be sexy will come alive again. There are lot of adult stores with great stuff you can look at and the staff are very helpful and no question is so far out that they can't help you. The staff in theses adult stores are very knowledgeable about the products they carry.
Also for those of you who are not ready to try the self gratifying (masturbation) with another person or it has been so long since you have been with somebody. I suggest having a date with yourself and treat yourself the way you want to be treated by a lover. Get into yourself its better to know how you feel about things so you know what you like and what you don't like. Before you allow it to be done by your lover.
But lets not leave out the other half of people who are not ready or just can not have regular intercourse. All is not lost for you. Sex without intercourse can still be enjoyable a orgasm can still be achieved with a mind blowing epic experience. Without intercourse,most men tend to think it's not real sex. Some women feel if only the man has the orgasm,they often feel used or cheated. But neither is totally true.
Truth and a real fact anything that involves a form of sexual stimulation and arousal is considered by law a form sex,including but not limited to hand jobs, oral sex, humping your body partner without penetration, slow grinding or dirty dancing if you will and self gratifying(masturbation). Remember you are trying to create a happier,healthier and perhaps a better communication and a greater understanding of each other.
As all ways we are adults have sex responsibly
Wednesday, July 30, 2014
Wednesday, July 23, 2014
Some People Don't Like Oral And Still Have Enjoyable Itimacy
A mature woman of age has brought it to my attention that she dose not like to perform or receive oral sex. It's against her religion. I told her that I have heard that before. She wanted to know, is that really mandatory in this day and age and I told her no. A lot of people don't just because they don't like it.
Another woman e-mailed me with a similar situations. I also know a couple that is dealing with ED (for those of you who do not know ED stands for Erectile Dysfunction ) Dealing with this can be very hard on a couple regardless the age.
So without penetration or oral sex how are we supposed to make love to each other? I want to make sure that there is a clear understanding of what I'm about to say. You don't have to be physically inside of someone or have someone physically inside of you or perform oral sex in order to make love. Making love is not only physical ,but it's mental and emotional. You have to have a certain respect, courtesy and appreciation.Couples need to pay attention to the things that made you love your mate before you ever became physically involved..Sexuality Never Dies!!!!!! It can hide or go on a long vacation. But Never Dies.
It is a proven fact all relationships do not consist of penetration nor do they consist of oral sex. Unlike many years ago. Masturbation is not taboo. It's very natural men and women of all ages have found it to be very relaxing and often it helps bring the sexy itimacy back into their relationship. It's not something you have to do alone, you can do it to and for each other. With the lights on or off it's still sex . Do you remember when you used to put on music turn the lights down low so you could dance slow. What is stopping you from doing that now? Believe it or not, that was the matting call and if you got a slow wind and grind on, soft kisses on the neck, heavy breathing, pressing your body parts together. Now they are moving as one! In the middle of the dance floor fully dressed and it feels Sooooo Good. Don't Stop Now You Are Having Sex.
You should never try to box out a sex style that may work for a few and try to make it a lovemaking style for all.
Another woman e-mailed me with a similar situations. I also know a couple that is dealing with ED (for those of you who do not know ED stands for Erectile Dysfunction ) Dealing with this can be very hard on a couple regardless the age.
So without penetration or oral sex how are we supposed to make love to each other? I want to make sure that there is a clear understanding of what I'm about to say. You don't have to be physically inside of someone or have someone physically inside of you or perform oral sex in order to make love. Making love is not only physical ,but it's mental and emotional. You have to have a certain respect, courtesy and appreciation.Couples need to pay attention to the things that made you love your mate before you ever became physically involved..Sexuality Never Dies!!!!!! It can hide or go on a long vacation. But Never Dies.
It is a proven fact all relationships do not consist of penetration nor do they consist of oral sex. Unlike many years ago. Masturbation is not taboo. It's very natural men and women of all ages have found it to be very relaxing and often it helps bring the sexy itimacy back into their relationship. It's not something you have to do alone, you can do it to and for each other. With the lights on or off it's still sex . Do you remember when you used to put on music turn the lights down low so you could dance slow. What is stopping you from doing that now? Believe it or not, that was the matting call and if you got a slow wind and grind on, soft kisses on the neck, heavy breathing, pressing your body parts together. Now they are moving as one! In the middle of the dance floor fully dressed and it feels Sooooo Good. Don't Stop Now You Are Having Sex.
You should never try to box out a sex style that may work for a few and try to make it a lovemaking style for all.
Wednesday, July 16, 2014
Last Curtin Call Till Death Do Us Part
Last curtain call is when you put on your very Best. Give your very best that way the other person sees that you are the best When Sex, Love, Friendship, Trust and Marriage are involved spot light, scene sets ,and wardrobes are always important Every woman wants to be a Headliner and Every man want to be the Leading man not the costar.
So make sure if you want to be treated like a star in your relationship. Than you need to perform star like quality, and except nothing less from your mate. If your doing your level best why should you get less than that in return. Set the standards so they know what you want and they will also see what you are capable of. Make you partner bring their best, And You bring out your best. The experience will be amazing, and why shouldn't it be. Now the key to keeping it like that is to talk to each other and really hear the other person out. Before you say No or I Can't and be honest about what you would like or you think you would like to try.
As long as the 2 of you have been together. You should be able to talk about your thoughts and fantasy if you can't you both have bigger problems than spicing up your sex life. When you can't talk openly to each other and you are committed to each other. Your relationship is facing sudden death and you will part. Because some one is going to wounder what life would be like if they where with some body more like the fantasies in their minds That is when all the sneaking, lying,betrayal comes in .Just because you all did not give and get the Stars performance from each other and did not talk about what it is you desire
A good way to open the doors is role playing some of you may be say what? get out of here. But it can help and if you try to really get into character you may find out you enjoy it and your mate can do the same. But if you don't talk you will never know.
So make sure if you want to be treated like a star in your relationship. Than you need to perform star like quality, and except nothing less from your mate. If your doing your level best why should you get less than that in return. Set the standards so they know what you want and they will also see what you are capable of. Make you partner bring their best, And You bring out your best. The experience will be amazing, and why shouldn't it be. Now the key to keeping it like that is to talk to each other and really hear the other person out. Before you say No or I Can't and be honest about what you would like or you think you would like to try.
As long as the 2 of you have been together. You should be able to talk about your thoughts and fantasy if you can't you both have bigger problems than spicing up your sex life. When you can't talk openly to each other and you are committed to each other. Your relationship is facing sudden death and you will part. Because some one is going to wounder what life would be like if they where with some body more like the fantasies in their minds That is when all the sneaking, lying,betrayal comes in .Just because you all did not give and get the Stars performance from each other and did not talk about what it is you desire
A good way to open the doors is role playing some of you may be say what? get out of here. But it can help and if you try to really get into character you may find out you enjoy it and your mate can do the same. But if you don't talk you will never know.
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