Lets Put The Cards On The Table

Men &Women alike it's not unusual for long-term couples to fall into repeating pattern. Which can cause boredom  . But you don't have to. At any age this can happen, you need to know how to handle it so both of your needs are being  met.That being said it's time to Break Out!!!!
         Some of you may be saying to yourself, How can I change this?  The answer is a lot easier than you think. You have let ,every day routine control every aspect of your life. From same meals,same conversations to the same way you make love. But I have good news to help change that.
         There is nothing wrong with experimenting at any age, alone or with your mate. Vibrators and other sex toys can spark up energy for men and women alike. Once you get your juices flowing again with masturbation your desire to be sexy will come alive again. There are lot of adult stores with great stuff you can look at and the staff are very helpful and no question is so far out that they can't help you. The staff in theses adult stores are very knowledgeable about the products they carry.
            Also for those of you who are not ready to try the self gratifying (masturbation) with another person or it has been so long since you have been with somebody. I suggest having a date with yourself and treat yourself the way you want to be treated by a lover. Get into yourself its better to know how you feel about things so you know what you like and what you don't like. Before you allow it to be done by your lover.
             But lets not leave out the other half of people who are not ready or just can not have regular intercourse. All is not lost for you. Sex without intercourse can still be enjoyable  a orgasm can still be achieved with a mind blowing epic experience. Without intercourse,most men tend to think it's not real sex. Some women feel if only the man has the orgasm,they often feel used or cheated. But neither is totally true.
              Truth and a real fact anything that involves a form of sexual stimulation and arousal is considered by law  a form sex,including  but not limited to hand jobs, oral sex, humping your body partner without penetration, slow grinding or dirty dancing if you will and self gratifying(masturbation). Remember you are trying to create a happier,healthier and perhaps a better communication and a greater understanding of each other.
As all ways we are adults have sex responsibly