What Do We Really Know About Each Other ??????

       How much about me do you know after all the years of us being involved sexually? My guess is less than you think.(Woman) I often over hear you say, I don't know if she would like that. But you never asked me.(Man) I often hear you say he would not try that he stays to himself. But you never asked me.
          Believe it or not, often people say No just because they don't like to do something without even asking their mate. Sometimes the answer is No just because they don't want to try anything new.Or just because they themselves don't want to..People one brain is not designed to think for (2) grown adult people. Snap out of it!!!!! This behavior makes you look like a Control Freak.
          These are called one-sided relationships.I'm here to kind of get in your face and say. There is more than one way to do things.
          So the Best way to try is to talk to each other. Because the views you had before doses not mean it's the same views you have now.How you really feel about sex and how I feel about sex may not even be close to the same views. But, If we don't talk you will never know. Reason being, everything in the world we live in changes. And believe it or not we do change. We even some times become more open minded to some things and closed minded to others. But that is because we live in a world that is constantly changing.
         Please try to understand it from another view other than your own. Everything can't be your way or my way. A relationship  requires us to communicate and express our feelings without judgement. If we are going to be a Us. I do hope this is helpful to you. Mrs.P.                                    As always have sex responsibly. Stormy Weather
         

Getting Caught Smack Dab In The Middle

            Talk about doing things you would have never thought you would get caught doing . Why, because you would think that we as adults should know how to be inconspicuous. The real question is what do you do when you just happen to walk in while it's happening. This past Monday a couple went to a movie early in the day after they had lunch. They thought it would be a good time to go seeing most people like to go to a movie later in the day.  As the couple stood in line for tickets they made small talk with some other people in line.They purchased their tickets then got a few snacks before they went in the movie.  As they entered the theater they past a couple already seated. Both couples gave a head gesture as hello.The ladies just smiled at each other as they past. The couple walked up a few more rows of seats then moved into the middle section of the seats. Just as the lights started dim to and go off a man walked in the theater grabbed a seat and sat down. during the previews of movies to come the man moved his seat over a little. About 40 minutes into the movie the first couple that was seated when you first walked in the theater was doing what appeared to be or looked like they were  having sex. So you try to not pay attention to them and enjoy the movie but this older couple started to get louder. The single man that was by himself moved closer to get a better look. But the elderly couple did not stop. When they where finished the lady got up went to the ladies room.Came back sat down brought the gentle man some towels and finished watching the movie. When the movie was over, the second couple walked down the steps. The guys looked at each other and smiled.
             The older man said that you got to get it when the mood hits Right! The other man said I agree. The single man said I need a cigarette now. The elder man said no you should say Thank You to my wife. I had her for 45 years and although I was making love to her you where able to have sex with your hand with the thought of her. And from the looks of things she is great even in your mind.