So it's Monday already. How Can The weekend that you looked so forward to, be over so fast? I mean, I already work myself like crazy for 5 days straight . I was looking forward to this weekend and it's over just like that.Where did the time go?
So often that is the conversation that many people have with them self.Without even thinking that it can be different if only they tried to change it. The same thing happens to couples in their relationships. Now a days everybody has a mobile device of some kind. Or a regular phone. So why not try this on for size and see if you like the fit.
Even if you are in the same house together call the other one on the phone.As if you are some place else and see if you can put some spice in your weekend to put a little flavor in your activity. Sugar and Spice makes everything nice. Now remember this will only work if you try to make it work.
Do you remember when you use to be on the phone for hours,talking and making plans to get together and show each other all the things that you were thinking? Now with that in mind I want you to try this.
I know your lover is in the next room. But pick up your phone and call them so you can talk. That's right I want you to Call your Candy bar or Cupcake on the phone. Now start with something like this.
(You) Hello, are you busy right now? can you talk?
(Your Lover) Sure we can talk and No I'm not busy. Whats on your mind?
(You) You. More to the point. I was thinking about the way you feel pressed against my body. I mean the way you make me feel, when you are pressed against my body. Do you remember the time when you made me reach down into my tunnel of love. Just because you missed your Sweet Thang and you wanted me to know how much you missed it, & what you were going to do when you got me alone?Would that happen to be the same time when you happen to spill a glass of wine and had to take your shirt off before it stained?
Oh wow I forgot about that night. You had me so worked up that, My body felt hot like a oven and I could not wait to have you between my thighs.
Do you remember how it all began that night? Yes I do. I asked you to tell me a bed time story with a nightcap. Because I was missing your body laying next to me and the rain was coming down so hard. It was putting me in a mood.That I wanted you to take your time and rock me slowly. I wanted you so much I wanted to have you near me. I wanted to reach out and touch you. I remember thinking. If you love me like you say you do, some day is tonight.
Oh I was thinking. I want to read your mind. Know your deepest feelings. I wanted to make love to you all night and make music with your body. I was thinking if you can stand the rain, I would give you all I got until your flood gates overflowed in ecstasy.
Well what are we going to do? Because I feel it coming on again. Let's get freaky baby. Oh yeah. Let me lick up and down until you yell stop. Let me play with your body baby and make you feel real hot. Come share my space in time, where temptations is so right. I will be your international lover.We can travel to every room in this house. Now let's create memories in our secret garden.
Now if this is just a rough draft what would your conversation be like write me and tell me how you would call your lover on the phone. At stormy.weather69@yahoo.com. Until next time, Be good to yourself and your lover and have sex responsibly
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
Wednesday, July 15, 2015
When Did Oral Sex Make You Royalty
When did my sexuality & oral skills make me a second class or second rate citizens . But yours made you some class of royalty.? But yet you need me to perform things on and to you. Because you don't know how to satisfy yourself. As we are a couple and I am secure in myself , I also am very capable of fulfilling your sexual desires and my own as well. Please tell me why you don't even try to pleasure me in the same fashion or even have the same desire to me as I do you. Yet you for some reason, feel that you are owed more of me than you give to me. You also appear to be in total shock when this conversation comes up. As if you actually try to satisfy me.
Just because you reached the height of sexual explosion in a matter of minutes dose not mean that the activity is over. I mean you left out my fireworks.Again !!! Do you ever think that it would be nice to satisfy me as I do you without getting any reward out of it yourself. Think about it. When oral satisfaction is being giving to you and your body is overwhelmed with fireworks and rockets blaring So much so, that you will ask for it in place of regular sex. So you can relieve yourself. Or as a sleep aid.
Please tell me, Why can't you without being asked or reminded? That the last time you preformed oral was back, when so and so happened.(in short makes no sense sound like bottled up bullshit)That is not the way it works. Just as you can receive it with out asking. Why can't you give it in the same manner? With out making it seem like its a chore. Don't do it half way. Don't do it like it's a form of punishment.Don't be so bad at it so your mate will never ask again. Make it feel like you want to feel when you are receiving it. Make your mate feel like it's a holiday.If you don't know how learn. In this day and age you can learn anything on the Internet. Practice on your mate. If you want to be A Great lover. Study, learn, research and practice. There is noway your mate is going to say No.If your trying to learn how to please them sexually. They want you to be able to give them the pleasure that they have been giving to you.Stop being selfish. Do On To Others As You Would Want Them To Do On To You.
Now remember if your not willing to give satisfactory work. Then you don't deserve Einstein's at it's Best. In fact you don't deserve to dine at a five star restaurant until you learn some oral pleasing etiquette. As always have sex responsibly.
Just because you reached the height of sexual explosion in a matter of minutes dose not mean that the activity is over. I mean you left out my fireworks.Again !!! Do you ever think that it would be nice to satisfy me as I do you without getting any reward out of it yourself. Think about it. When oral satisfaction is being giving to you and your body is overwhelmed with fireworks and rockets blaring So much so, that you will ask for it in place of regular sex. So you can relieve yourself. Or as a sleep aid.
Please tell me, Why can't you without being asked or reminded? That the last time you preformed oral was back, when so and so happened.(in short makes no sense sound like bottled up bullshit)That is not the way it works. Just as you can receive it with out asking. Why can't you give it in the same manner? With out making it seem like its a chore. Don't do it half way. Don't do it like it's a form of punishment.Don't be so bad at it so your mate will never ask again. Make it feel like you want to feel when you are receiving it. Make your mate feel like it's a holiday.If you don't know how learn. In this day and age you can learn anything on the Internet. Practice on your mate. If you want to be A Great lover. Study, learn, research and practice. There is noway your mate is going to say No.If your trying to learn how to please them sexually. They want you to be able to give them the pleasure that they have been giving to you.Stop being selfish. Do On To Others As You Would Want Them To Do On To You.
Now remember if your not willing to give satisfactory work. Then you don't deserve Einstein's at it's Best. In fact you don't deserve to dine at a five star restaurant until you learn some oral pleasing etiquette. As always have sex responsibly.
Wednesday, July 8, 2015
Sexual Casualties Of War
Why would anybody say something like,( That is what you're thinking right? Or do you think that it's just a part of life and it has to happen to somebody.If not you than who? You don't think it should be me do you?
This war has been going on so long that some people think that it's normal.You know after having it done so much. Some have even come to expect it.They are even prepared to bring flowers.Some look at it as just a way to make the noise stop.You know the begging.(COME ON YOU KNOW HOW LONG IT'S BEEN) or (I GOT NEEDS )
If you have all these needs going on within your self. Then just maybe you should stop taking it for granted that your mate will always be able to perform sexual acts so when ever they are not able to do so, you won't behave as if you are 7 years old and somebody broke your favorite toy.
As adults we all go through many changes in life. Some are good and then you have the not so good. But when it comes to sex and relationships. Cupcakes and Candy Bars alike must learn to be considerate of their lovers.Because the day will come when the can't be the lover you know. That time can also last longer than a few days.You know when there is a flood at the palace of love.
The situation is not terminal but it can put a iceberg on the sexual activity . But to have somebody nagging or complaining or always saying how long it has been. Really dose not help the situation. In fact it may make it worst. Because your mate may feel that you are not being considerate of their feelings. So instead of you getting the best mind blowing because they love you sex. You may be getting the (HERE!!!! PLEASE SHUT UP SEX )
When that happens all of the passion , romance and you make me feel like I'm floating sex is over. Because now your mate is feeling like you don't care about their feelings.Now everything that the both of you use to love about your sexual relationship.Has turn into some form of WAR. There is no more romance no mind blowing knock me out sex. It's now hurry up and get through. Can you please not talk to me. I'm not going to put on The Grand Stage or The Three Ring Circus.
Now you can watch TV during sex and even change channels,hear the traffic outside & count the pumps in between your fake moans. Now the sex that you once loved is dead and your desire to improve on your lovemaking skills is dead. Now you both are considering getting new lovers but you don't really want to start over. It takes too much to find somebody who understands who you are. So before you become a causality of sexual war. Think about how you treat your lover.When things are good and when they are not so good. As always have sex responsibly. Love y'all Stormy Weather69
This war has been going on so long that some people think that it's normal.You know after having it done so much. Some have even come to expect it.They are even prepared to bring flowers.Some look at it as just a way to make the noise stop.You know the begging.(COME ON YOU KNOW HOW LONG IT'S BEEN) or (I GOT NEEDS )
If you have all these needs going on within your self. Then just maybe you should stop taking it for granted that your mate will always be able to perform sexual acts so when ever they are not able to do so, you won't behave as if you are 7 years old and somebody broke your favorite toy.
As adults we all go through many changes in life. Some are good and then you have the not so good. But when it comes to sex and relationships. Cupcakes and Candy Bars alike must learn to be considerate of their lovers.Because the day will come when the can't be the lover you know. That time can also last longer than a few days.You know when there is a flood at the palace of love.
The situation is not terminal but it can put a iceberg on the sexual activity . But to have somebody nagging or complaining or always saying how long it has been. Really dose not help the situation. In fact it may make it worst. Because your mate may feel that you are not being considerate of their feelings. So instead of you getting the best mind blowing because they love you sex. You may be getting the (HERE!!!! PLEASE SHUT UP SEX )
When that happens all of the passion , romance and you make me feel like I'm floating sex is over. Because now your mate is feeling like you don't care about their feelings.Now everything that the both of you use to love about your sexual relationship.Has turn into some form of WAR. There is no more romance no mind blowing knock me out sex. It's now hurry up and get through. Can you please not talk to me. I'm not going to put on The Grand Stage or The Three Ring Circus.
Now you can watch TV during sex and even change channels,hear the traffic outside & count the pumps in between your fake moans. Now the sex that you once loved is dead and your desire to improve on your lovemaking skills is dead. Now you both are considering getting new lovers but you don't really want to start over. It takes too much to find somebody who understands who you are. So before you become a causality of sexual war. Think about how you treat your lover.When things are good and when they are not so good. As always have sex responsibly. Love y'all Stormy Weather69
SEX On A Slippery Slope Or A Up Hill Battle Part # 2
Alright lets put some of these dilemmas to rest between all Cupcakes & Candy bars a like. Because we have got to turn over a new leaf if we want to increase the sexual activity in our life. Please don't tell me how you have tried everything. When I know that you have not. So lets start here. What is the biggest sex organ in your body? No not that one, there is another believe it or not. It's your brain. Get your mind out of the clouds just for a minute we will come back to the clouds of pleasure in a moment.
The reason why it's the biggest is because every thing starts from there.I mean everything what we think,expect,fantasize about,how we feel,experience as sexy ,to what we say or even ask. It all starts in our brain. Now in part #1 I told you a few reason why these sexual dilemmas take place now I will tell you how to fix them. 1. If your last lover was so boring that you felt like you would have more fun to watch paint dry.Don't assume that this lover will be the same . If you do they will never get to play because you won't let them on the field.#2 Don't keep your sexuality and sexy animal instincts locked up inside a cage let it out. But be easy about it too much too soon can hurt the relationship. But don't hold back so much that you can't be yourself. That's not good for them or you.#3 Stop trying to out do one another just let it happen make the experience be good for both of you. so you can have pillow talk later when you are just cuddling it's great. It's also a good way to find out how was the experience for them, did they enjoy it , is there anything that they really enjoyed. Or did not really care for asking question and learning about you lover is a good thing. #4 A over dose on anything is never a good thing so pace yourself . If you don't have a big sexual appetite then don't start off like that when you first start seeing a person. Because they may come to expect it all the time. #5 The use of bedroom toys is not a bad thing. In fact you may find them to be very helpful. Just remember they are not replacement for your lover and they don't have feelings like your lover. But they can help in a pinch.Also be honest about having them you don't want to be caught off guard when the question comes up. Last but not least #6 If you have reservation about something ask, talk about it with your lover. Communication is key to it all . If you don't talk about how you feel the little things become big problems in the long run.
As always be good to each other stay true to yourself and always have sex responsibly Stormy Weather 69
The reason why it's the biggest is because every thing starts from there.I mean everything what we think,expect,fantasize about,how we feel,experience as sexy ,to what we say or even ask. It all starts in our brain. Now in part #1 I told you a few reason why these sexual dilemmas take place now I will tell you how to fix them. 1. If your last lover was so boring that you felt like you would have more fun to watch paint dry.Don't assume that this lover will be the same . If you do they will never get to play because you won't let them on the field.#2 Don't keep your sexuality and sexy animal instincts locked up inside a cage let it out. But be easy about it too much too soon can hurt the relationship. But don't hold back so much that you can't be yourself. That's not good for them or you.#3 Stop trying to out do one another just let it happen make the experience be good for both of you. so you can have pillow talk later when you are just cuddling it's great. It's also a good way to find out how was the experience for them, did they enjoy it , is there anything that they really enjoyed. Or did not really care for asking question and learning about you lover is a good thing. #4 A over dose on anything is never a good thing so pace yourself . If you don't have a big sexual appetite then don't start off like that when you first start seeing a person. Because they may come to expect it all the time. #5 The use of bedroom toys is not a bad thing. In fact you may find them to be very helpful. Just remember they are not replacement for your lover and they don't have feelings like your lover. But they can help in a pinch.Also be honest about having them you don't want to be caught off guard when the question comes up. Last but not least #6 If you have reservation about something ask, talk about it with your lover. Communication is key to it all . If you don't talk about how you feel the little things become big problems in the long run.
As always be good to each other stay true to yourself and always have sex responsibly Stormy Weather 69
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