SEX On A Slippery Slope Or A Up Hill Battle Part # 2

              Alright lets put some of these dilemmas to rest between all Cupcakes & Candy bars a like. Because we have got to turn over a new leaf if we want to increase the sexual activity in our life.  Please don't tell me how you have tried everything. When I know that you have not. So lets start here. What is the biggest sex organ in your body? No not that one, there is another believe it or not. It's your brain. Get your mind out of the clouds just for a minute we will come back to the clouds of pleasure in a moment.
                The reason why it's the biggest is because every thing starts from there.I mean everything what we think,expect,fantasize about,how we feel,experience as sexy ,to what we say or even ask. It all starts in our brain. Now in part #1 I told you a few reason why these sexual dilemmas take place now I will tell you how to fix them. 1. If your last lover was so boring that you felt like you would have more fun to watch paint dry.Don't assume that this lover will be the same . If you do they will never get to play because you won't let them on the field.#2 Don't keep your sexuality and sexy animal instincts locked up inside a cage let it out. But be easy about it too much too soon can hurt the relationship. But don't hold back so much that you can't be yourself. That's not good for them or you.#3 Stop trying to out do one another just let it happen make the experience be good for both of you. so you can have pillow talk later when you are just cuddling it's great. It's also a good way to find out how was the experience for them, did they enjoy it , is there anything that they really enjoyed. Or did not really care for asking question and learning about you lover is a good thing. #4 A over dose on anything is never a good thing so pace yourself . If you don't have a big sexual appetite  then don't start off like that when you first start seeing a person.  Because they may come to expect it all the time. #5 The use of bedroom toys is not a bad thing. In fact you may find them to be very helpful. Just remember they are not replacement for your lover and they don't have feelings like your lover. But they can help in a pinch.Also be honest about having them you don't want to be caught off guard when the question comes up. Last but not least #6 If you have reservation about something ask, talk about it with your lover. Communication is key to it all . If you don't talk about how you feel the little things become big problems in the long run.
                   As always be good to each other stay true to yourself and always have sex responsibly Stormy Weather 69