SEX On A Slippery Slope Or Up Hill Battle Part #1

            People always have something to say about what is going on or how can they still enjoy sex at this time in their life. But the truth is, your sex drive or desire doesn't stop with the speed limit on the highway. Often in many couples that is when the desire increases. Some time only one has the desire and the other one doesn't. This is called not being in sink with the change of life or not riding the curve.
             Please don't mistake what I'm about to say. It has nothing to do with age it's more mental than physical. The thing is to try and understand you as a individual so that you can express your self . Many people fall in this mode that they are trying so hard to please their lover that they forget what it takes to please their self. Or they may be so into pleasing their mate that they overlook that their needs are being overlooked.
                Believe it or not that is one reason why people go outside of their relationships. Not because they are not having sex but because they are not being satisfied. Their sexual experience or in counters have gone from mind blowing sex to becoming  very one sided. When a relationship is new everybody wants to show how great they are sexually. But after a few years you may find that only one of you are Great and the other one is just Good.
                 There are a few reasons why this happens. (1) It's been so long since you have been active that your sexual balloon was so full that it burst and the receiver was getting all that was held up in that small space.(2) Your lover before was so boring that you could not wait to express your sexual self. (3) You wanted this person so bad that you are determined to show them that you are better than their last lover.(4) Your like a kid in a candy store with a unlimited amount of how much candy you can have. And like with anything that you have too much of you are now sick or bored out of your mind with it. Now the question is, how do you fix it?
             Check out Sex On A Slippery Slope Part #2 . With the answer next week.
As always have sex responsibly. Stormy Weather 69.