We all have those times in our life when things slow down in the bedroom. How to put a little speed and spice back into a relationship between two people. Sometimes it seem like a lost cause. But I'm here to tell you it can be fixed. So lets start with tonight.
Let's take a trip back down memory lane. It's a man's world. But nothing without a person to love. So let's find out what made the two of you fall for each other in the first place. Because if you start from the beginning you can restart a fire and turn it into a full blown Blaze
Let's start with clean and fresh believe it or not it's a real turn on. Whether you are a Cupcake or a Candy bar we all like clean and fresh. It's been along time since you've express yourself this way, but you have throw caution to the wind. Show your mate how you feel inside. You don't need a lot of money to get this right. You just need to be creative and attentive to make it work. Start with a couples shower or bath. Then get to know your lovers body by given them a full body massage. I do mean a full body massage. You are going to take some oil or lotion and massage and caress your lovers body. Then they shall do the same to you.
Set the scene to be sexy. Low lighting is always good. Your eyes muscles don't have to work so hard. A few tea light candles will work well. Now the music, it should be easy listing, like some smooth jazz or something with a romantic groove. Have a washcloth in a bowl or pot with some hot water to wipe your selves off when your finish. If it's real hot don't worry, it will have cooled off a bit by the time you finish making love. Remember that a slow hand is a turn on. This is a good time to find out what your lover likes. Not just what you think they like. Every sex style is good if you both enjoy it and it leads to satisfying sex. Now when you try new sex positions or location it can help. So don't rule that out of the equation. Now this is a good time to start with little kisses on your lovers body. This is a nice way to get each other in the mood. If it's ok with both of you a small vibrator will enhance the activity if used gingerly . You don't want it to do all the work but it's a nice assistant . Take your time and don't rush through everything. It's not a race your supposed to be making love not playing Jack in a Box. It would be nice to have good memories. On your Sexy Saturday Night. So don't blow it.
As always have sex responsibly be good to yourself and your lover.
Love Stormy Weather 69
OMG...this sounds like the perfect setting for 'The Gift'!!! You remember 'The Gift'...Also speaking of putting the spark back in, is it weird to have violent, felonies committed sex thoughts??? I will email you...Love you Stormy 6 on top of the 9 :)
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