Hey Cupcakes & Candy bars listen up too many of us have lost out on the fine art of a kiss. I know a lot of you don't see what is so hard. You pucker your lips and press them against another pair of lips. But it's more than just that. There is a real technique to it. I mean you can't just do it. Do you remember that kiss that made you felt like you sprouted butterfly wings. Or the one that made you feel like silk.
Some say that a kiss tells them whether or not they want to continue to date you or stop right here on the first date. Some say the passion when they kiss their mate, was so great that they feel like their relationship is fresh and new all the time. Some people say they have been with their mate so long that they feel like they are kissing their grandmother good bye.
So let's try to put some life back in these kisses, shall we. When you have been with some body for a while we forget these little things. But I'm here to tell you they are big things to your mate. Like a Fresh breath even after dinner. Why do you think some restaurant offer mints after dinner. They anticipate you will be kissing later that evening. So if your out and can't brush again. Carry some Altoids or breath mints of some kind.
Next relax clear your mind and focus on the person you are with and nothing else. Angel your head so you don't crunch noses. Move in slowly don't rush in they want a kiss, not a bite of a sandwich. Lean in as they lean in so you know the time is right. If they are hesitant that may be a sign that they are not ready.
Kissing is sometimes best done in private. So if you must kiss in public, make it soft sweet and only a few seconds. In public you never know who's little eyes may catch you. Public affection can get out of control if you know what I mean.
Next soft and gentle with passion. Even a candy bars lips should be soft. Dry lips don't feel good but wet lips don't feel good either. When kissing experience with different movements and techniques. Don't rush to put your tongue in their mouth, work up to that. If your going to try French kissing, Do it lightly. Nobody wants to feel like they are being choked by your tongue. Or being kissed by a dog. Don't droll in the other persons mouth. That is nasty, Your trying to make their insides feel you through a kiss of passion. Not gag them.
Don't forget to breath through your nose. It would suck if you pass out. Because your are holding your breath while kissing. As the passion intensifies slowly kiss their neck and or ears and collar bone. Remember not to pass the chest plate. Your only kissing at this point.
Truly passionate kissing has a sense of urgency . As if you have been waiting for this moment so long that you can't hold back. But your mate should not feel like they are being mugged. Lastly use your hands stroke your mates face, neck and hair softly. Make sure your hands are clean and soft, Not hard and rough. Your going to be touching their face. For goodness sake.
Lastly don't be overzealous when kissing, you want your mate to feel your passion and want more of it. You will be able to tell if it's working. Because your two bodies will be drawn into each other and the other body signals will be telling you something. If you know what I mean.
Always remember that practice makes perfect. If you want to keep the passion going you must work on it. Later we will talk about how to kiss other body parts to create a real turn on of passion.
As Always Be Good To Yourself & Others And Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Stormy...did you know the perfect and correct way to say my name is like the perfect kiss...you put your lips together and blow :)...I want to talk about other body part kissing now...I like kissing...Kissing can be very soothing.
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