Mixed Signals

             Trying to keep everything in order. In your personal life as well as your professional life. When in the middle of everything you for get that your lover is also your friend.  It happens more often than one might think. Some times you also may have to lose your lover. In order to find out that they where your friend. Some couples have had to marry a person before they find out that their union was not meant to be. Why do that ? If you would stop letting your sexual attraction lead you and let your mind and spirit take over. There will be less mistakes made.
                 If you start off a relationship with gifts and promises. Then the person your doing this to will think that this is the way the relationship will always be. If you are getting together like rabbits every time  your together . Then they will always expect for you to perform regardless how many things change in your life.
                  With that being said, What signals do you give off . Now that you have your mate. Are you two being considerate of their feeling and their needs? Are you making how you feel known? Are you clear when you are expressing your needs? Or when you want to be affectionate? If your sending mixed and crazy signals , how can you expect them to understand or be able to respond to your needs.
                    Cupcakes if you want your Candy bar to work what are you doing to put them in the mood. Candy bars if you want your Cupcake to be share her frosting  you should make sure you are ready. The signals you give off pay a big part in what happens in your relationship. As much as how you communicate with you . So check into how you act and react to your mate. Watch what signs you give. Do you give a positive or a negative signal. If you take a minute and look you may find that you give off mixed signals.If that is the case, that would explain why you two are not moving on the same accord.
                      So pay attention to the signals you are sending your mate. Talk to them and tell them what you want and need not what you think they want to hear. As always be good to yourself and others, treat people the way you want to be treated.  Have sex responsibly
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So You Think You Know Your Lover, Wanna Bet !!!

           People always amazed me, They get so full of themselves. Like when they even  give the false impression that they know their lover better than anybody else .  But the truth is that often they are blind to so many things about their lover.  What do I mean by that? It's simple, In so many relationships people hold back a lot. Everything from things that happen in their childhood. To what they are most afraid of. To their deep down dark questions and desires about sex.  Are they totally satisfied sexually with their lover?. Whether or not they are capable of cheating on their current lover / have they ever cheated on their lover?. Or if they think about having extra curriculum sexual experiences?
            Here is a  little truth their secret lover usually know more about their part time lover. Than the main lover or spouse. Now I know you think that I'm wrong. But studies have been done and proven. That it's not a mistake the percentages are astounding. Assuming you know everything about your lover would prove to be a grave mistake on your part. Now don't get to besides yourself and run off and start mouthing off a lot of questions to your lover. That is not the way to bridge the gap or get the questions answered. Your mate has to feel in their heart and soul a great sense of trust, non-judgmental, understanding and unconditional love.
             There must also be a form of openness and exposure of emotions on your part. Nobody wants to be totally exposed with emotions so in order to protect feelings. People keep them hidden from people that can use them as a weapon against them later. It usually is the one that holds their heart in their hands.
               So do you know everything about your lover? The answer is No. And unless you are willing to open your soul and expose everything that makes you who you are . You will never know everything about your lover and who would want to? You have enough to worry about inside of your self. So If they share with you be thankful and respectful. Don't push or dig to hard. You may not like where it leads you.
               As Always Have Sex Responsibly
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