Mixed Signals

             Trying to keep everything in order. In your personal life as well as your professional life. When in the middle of everything you for get that your lover is also your friend.  It happens more often than one might think. Some times you also may have to lose your lover. In order to find out that they where your friend. Some couples have had to marry a person before they find out that their union was not meant to be. Why do that ? If you would stop letting your sexual attraction lead you and let your mind and spirit take over. There will be less mistakes made.
                 If you start off a relationship with gifts and promises. Then the person your doing this to will think that this is the way the relationship will always be. If you are getting together like rabbits every time  your together . Then they will always expect for you to perform regardless how many things change in your life.
                  With that being said, What signals do you give off . Now that you have your mate. Are you two being considerate of their feeling and their needs? Are you making how you feel known? Are you clear when you are expressing your needs? Or when you want to be affectionate? If your sending mixed and crazy signals , how can you expect them to understand or be able to respond to your needs.
                    Cupcakes if you want your Candy bar to work what are you doing to put them in the mood. Candy bars if you want your Cupcake to be share her frosting  you should make sure you are ready. The signals you give off pay a big part in what happens in your relationship. As much as how you communicate with you . So check into how you act and react to your mate. Watch what signs you give. Do you give a positive or a negative signal. If you take a minute and look you may find that you give off mixed signals.If that is the case, that would explain why you two are not moving on the same accord.
                      So pay attention to the signals you are sending your mate. Talk to them and tell them what you want and need not what you think they want to hear. As always be good to yourself and others, treat people the way you want to be treated.  Have sex responsibly
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