I know a lot of you readying this may have some strong feelings on this matter. Some of you feel that it all depends on the matter. But not for nothing you may want to do your home work on this matter . Because what you don't know . Can and will hurt you. When it comes to pleasing your mate.
Now!! some of you may say . "It's been working all this time I'm good " or " They can take what I got to give and be happy" or "If it not broke don't fix it" and the best 2 are "You don't have to if you don't want to" & "I'm not worried I'm the best you'll ever have" If your saying it or you have been hearing it. IT'S ALL WRONG !!!! If you believe the phrases than your Crazy!!!!
You can't think that on either side of the coin. Because we can't see into the future. Also there is always going to be somebody out there with more skills and knowledge than you. Who are willing to do the work and read about that thing , that you don't want to do....
Which brings us to some real facts. So grab a pin or smart phone and take some notes. It's not that candy bars are always ready for sex. Some times it's just that they are not fully satisfied. So they are waiting to finish what they started. So when the opportunity presents it's self they will be ready.To deliver on a dime, regardless who will be there to receive it.
Cupcakes are not hard to please . You must pay attention to the signs she is sending. Because if you are on the right track, her body and mouth will tell you. It only seems like work because your not enjoying the pleasure of fine cakes. But leave her alone too long and somebody will frosting her cakes.
Now sweets as a whole. If you like something and your mate is not doing it. Show them what it is you like. They may not always get it the first time. But with practice, they will more than amaze you. Now if they insist on doing it wrong or flat out don't do it .Keep in mind whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If You stop giving out more than you receive. They will come around. But if you are holding out for no real reason. Or you just think of treats as holiday foods. You may find that you have taken too long. On your delivery. Now your mate is no longer waiting for you. They have found other treats that are pleasing to them . It is of course your fault. For not talking to your mate and letting them know what you want and need. No worries. Somebody will be waiting in the wings to do the job . They will also take great pride in doing the job. I hope you all heard me.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 22, 2017
Wednesday, February 15, 2017
Relationships Do Change, But Who Are You ?
Do we give too much of our self in a relationship that we forget, an in doing so that we cripple our mates ? Think about your daily activities . How often do you have to stop what your doing, to go find something or to fix something or to clean up something . Because they have made a complete mess of everything. What is so crazy about everything is that they claim to have been able to do so much before they became your mate. Why is it that when a person who was so self sufficient gets in a relationship they need their mate to do so much. Some things are so crazy when you think about it you may feel like taking a bullhorn to the head and say can you use your mind right now . I sent mine out to the cleaners. It won't be back until Monday. Even though it's only Wednesday.
When you get in a relationship whether it's romantic, personal or business. You need to still remain as individual and so should the other person or persons. Because we have all been blessed with a brain and no one brain is or should think for two or more people. It's not fair and it can be very exhausting. When you decide to date a person it is supposed to make both of you better in your own right. Not make things harder or stress full. That is one of the reasons you decide to talk to them in the first place. they appeared to be interesting and you had things in common with similar interest.
You are not supposed to lose yourself in the growth of the relationship. When that happens, you need to press pause. Rewind and find out what happened, address it ,hit rest and then press play. If you don't due these simple things you are going to have the same problem over and over again.
Getting involved with another person can be great and fun. Sharing things and doing things together and enjoying their company is all wonderful. But If your going to take aware their independents or they are going to take away yours. The relationship is going to fall and if you to ever part company . Somebody is sure going to hit bottom harder than the other person.
That being said if you are in a relationship or if you are contemplating getting involved with somebody. Make sure you pay close attention to the signal you give each other. Don't take away the one thing that makes you two be (2) different people and that is independents. There is a such thing as doing or giving too much. In the name of Love. Trust that when you do it . Your not gong to like your mate much and Your going to find yourself looking at other people. To understand you and appreciate you. When all of this could have been avoided. Don't cripple your mate.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
When you get in a relationship whether it's romantic, personal or business. You need to still remain as individual and so should the other person or persons. Because we have all been blessed with a brain and no one brain is or should think for two or more people. It's not fair and it can be very exhausting. When you decide to date a person it is supposed to make both of you better in your own right. Not make things harder or stress full. That is one of the reasons you decide to talk to them in the first place. they appeared to be interesting and you had things in common with similar interest.
You are not supposed to lose yourself in the growth of the relationship. When that happens, you need to press pause. Rewind and find out what happened, address it ,hit rest and then press play. If you don't due these simple things you are going to have the same problem over and over again.
Getting involved with another person can be great and fun. Sharing things and doing things together and enjoying their company is all wonderful. But If your going to take aware their independents or they are going to take away yours. The relationship is going to fall and if you to ever part company . Somebody is sure going to hit bottom harder than the other person.
That being said if you are in a relationship or if you are contemplating getting involved with somebody. Make sure you pay close attention to the signal you give each other. Don't take away the one thing that makes you two be (2) different people and that is independents. There is a such thing as doing or giving too much. In the name of Love. Trust that when you do it . Your not gong to like your mate much and Your going to find yourself looking at other people. To understand you and appreciate you. When all of this could have been avoided. Don't cripple your mate.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 8, 2017
Putting Our Gender To The Side, How Different Our We
So to test a theory verses a fact. I did a little recon, we have a lot more in common with each other than we would like to think. Or what we have been taught. Believe it or not we are very emotional and when I say that I mean, Candy bars and Cupcakes alike. But we try our best to make it seem like it's only Cupcakes. We are often portrayed to be more emotional, than our counter parts The Candy bars. We have been convinced that Candy bars are more territorial. Is it possible we could be wrong?
When we truly make love to somebody with our heart ,body and soul. When it ends for what ever the reason how it effects you says a lot about your emotional state as well as your mental state of mind. There are Cupcakes as well as Candy bars that can change their sexual mates. As often as a nail color. With no remorse regardless how long or how great the sexual experience has been. Then You have the Candy bar who the fear of getting hurt. Will not allow himself to be emotional to a Cupcake .So he changes them out like he changes his shoes.
There are the few Cupcakes and Candy bars whom, if they get your sexual pleasure. They become so controlling and possessive. So much so that you can't be friends with anybody of the opposite sex. With out their approval. That being said, they are also the ones that you always find your self explaining who people are in your life. Or the friends that you use to talk to you don't to them any more.
Cupcakes and Candy bars alike can be violent or vindictive when you split or try to slow down the relationship. You can feel like it's just moving too fast. You may even feel like your not ready or they are not ready for a relationship of this magnitude. Before you know it they have become a person that you don't even recognize.
More often than not, Cupcakes and Candy bars a like have found that the person that they met in the beginning of the relationship. Is not the same person they are when they have had them for a while. Which can cause then to stray or cause them to end the relationship. Sometimes you have to taste a few pieces of chocolates before you find a brand that taste good to you. Sometimes you have to taste a few cake mixes before you find a brand that taste good to you. All I'm asking is don't put all of them in the same box. Manufactures didn't so you could be able to tell their brands apart. You should do the same. Just a little food for thought. When you start labeling people. Remember we have more in common than you think.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
When we truly make love to somebody with our heart ,body and soul. When it ends for what ever the reason how it effects you says a lot about your emotional state as well as your mental state of mind. There are Cupcakes as well as Candy bars that can change their sexual mates. As often as a nail color. With no remorse regardless how long or how great the sexual experience has been. Then You have the Candy bar who the fear of getting hurt. Will not allow himself to be emotional to a Cupcake .So he changes them out like he changes his shoes.
There are the few Cupcakes and Candy bars whom, if they get your sexual pleasure. They become so controlling and possessive. So much so that you can't be friends with anybody of the opposite sex. With out their approval. That being said, they are also the ones that you always find your self explaining who people are in your life. Or the friends that you use to talk to you don't to them any more.
Cupcakes and Candy bars alike can be violent or vindictive when you split or try to slow down the relationship. You can feel like it's just moving too fast. You may even feel like your not ready or they are not ready for a relationship of this magnitude. Before you know it they have become a person that you don't even recognize.
More often than not, Cupcakes and Candy bars a like have found that the person that they met in the beginning of the relationship. Is not the same person they are when they have had them for a while. Which can cause then to stray or cause them to end the relationship. Sometimes you have to taste a few pieces of chocolates before you find a brand that taste good to you. Sometimes you have to taste a few cake mixes before you find a brand that taste good to you. All I'm asking is don't put all of them in the same box. Manufactures didn't so you could be able to tell their brands apart. You should do the same. Just a little food for thought. When you start labeling people. Remember we have more in common than you think.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 1, 2017
The Aftermath
Wow, What a beautiful morning. I mean, I know it's lunch time and I just missed being late for work by a easy 10 minutes. But I just can't help thinking what a BEAUTIFUL morning it was to me and still is according to my muscles. Anytime you are still basking in the feeling, the sensation, the heart throbbing the overwhelming feeling of great girth between your thighs. Mind you it has been 6 hours 27 minutes and 13 seconds. Since he was between the soft cushion that lays between my thighs.
I said it was a beautiful morning. I can still hear Al Green playing in my head and the sounds of the rain coming down outside my window. Although I swear I see sunshine through the raindrops . If you have never had morning sex let me tell you . Morning sex can be the cross between a sprint and a marathon. Depending on the athlete and the endurance.
How do you weigh 1000 Roses to 1000 strokes of passion which has left you lightheaded and full of emotion. Making your heartbeat more than 4,800 times in a hour. He asked if I was ready?
I answered Yes. Because I thought I was. Then he replied that the sex he was going to give me. Was going to make time stand still.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Laying in front of this amazing specimen of a man. The great bar of chocolate. Whom was about to make it's grand entrance into my world of ecstasy. Placed tender kisses all over my body. He whispered , your skin is so soft and warm. Show me where to touch you deeply, and all the places I will go. This love I'm going to give you will be like no other you have ever had. He gently spread both my legs wide open and put his head into the part of my world of passion. Talk about a talent, a skill, If done right would send you into heaven. To be kissed from your eyelids to your earlobes, to your lips, to your neck, to your breast and turned over. As slow kisses moved down the small of your back. To your round mounds of your plumped ass.
To only be turned again and tongue F^*". Oh shit what was that??? Am I paralyzed? The intensity of his extreme pleasure. When he reached into my palace he said. I want you so full of me, that when you close your eyes. You can see your full of Me. As I burst from the strength of his comfortable curve. My sweet nectar of sex berries ran like heated honey.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Make no mistake, I have had Great Lovers. But nothing like this. Once you have had Great, good or OK will never do. He only wanted to broaden my world of ecstasy he said. So relax and enjoy as I take you in & out of consciousness. It's almost morning, I will give you my best. Soon you'll be fast asleep. Was the last thing I heard. Until The Good Morning Kiss. Now I'm here and I can not wait to let him in again. It was a Beautiful Morning.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
I said it was a beautiful morning. I can still hear Al Green playing in my head and the sounds of the rain coming down outside my window. Although I swear I see sunshine through the raindrops . If you have never had morning sex let me tell you . Morning sex can be the cross between a sprint and a marathon. Depending on the athlete and the endurance.
How do you weigh 1000 Roses to 1000 strokes of passion which has left you lightheaded and full of emotion. Making your heartbeat more than 4,800 times in a hour. He asked if I was ready?
I answered Yes. Because I thought I was. Then he replied that the sex he was going to give me. Was going to make time stand still.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Laying in front of this amazing specimen of a man. The great bar of chocolate. Whom was about to make it's grand entrance into my world of ecstasy. Placed tender kisses all over my body. He whispered , your skin is so soft and warm. Show me where to touch you deeply, and all the places I will go. This love I'm going to give you will be like no other you have ever had. He gently spread both my legs wide open and put his head into the part of my world of passion. Talk about a talent, a skill, If done right would send you into heaven. To be kissed from your eyelids to your earlobes, to your lips, to your neck, to your breast and turned over. As slow kisses moved down the small of your back. To your round mounds of your plumped ass.
To only be turned again and tongue F^*". Oh shit what was that??? Am I paralyzed? The intensity of his extreme pleasure. When he reached into my palace he said. I want you so full of me, that when you close your eyes. You can see your full of Me. As I burst from the strength of his comfortable curve. My sweet nectar of sex berries ran like heated honey.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Make no mistake, I have had Great Lovers. But nothing like this. Once you have had Great, good or OK will never do. He only wanted to broaden my world of ecstasy he said. So relax and enjoy as I take you in & out of consciousness. It's almost morning, I will give you my best. Soon you'll be fast asleep. Was the last thing I heard. Until The Good Morning Kiss. Now I'm here and I can not wait to let him in again. It was a Beautiful Morning.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
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