Do we give too much of our self in a relationship that we forget, an in doing so that we cripple our mates ? Think about your daily activities . How often do you have to stop what your doing, to go find something or to fix something or to clean up something . Because they have made a complete mess of everything. What is so crazy about everything is that they claim to have been able to do so much before they became your mate. Why is it that when a person who was so self sufficient gets in a relationship they need their mate to do so much. Some things are so crazy when you think about it you may feel like taking a bullhorn to the head and say can you use your mind right now . I sent mine out to the cleaners. It won't be back until Monday. Even though it's only Wednesday.
When you get in a relationship whether it's romantic, personal or business. You need to still remain as individual and so should the other person or persons. Because we have all been blessed with a brain and no one brain is or should think for two or more people. It's not fair and it can be very exhausting. When you decide to date a person it is supposed to make both of you better in your own right. Not make things harder or stress full. That is one of the reasons you decide to talk to them in the first place. they appeared to be interesting and you had things in common with similar interest.
You are not supposed to lose yourself in the growth of the relationship. When that happens, you need to press pause. Rewind and find out what happened, address it ,hit rest and then press play. If you don't due these simple things you are going to have the same problem over and over again.
Getting involved with another person can be great and fun. Sharing things and doing things together and enjoying their company is all wonderful. But If your going to take aware their independents or they are going to take away yours. The relationship is going to fall and if you to ever part company . Somebody is sure going to hit bottom harder than the other person.
That being said if you are in a relationship or if you are contemplating getting involved with somebody. Make sure you pay close attention to the signal you give each other. Don't take away the one thing that makes you two be (2) different people and that is independents. There is a such thing as doing or giving too much. In the name of Love. Trust that when you do it . Your not gong to like your mate much and Your going to find yourself looking at other people. To understand you and appreciate you. When all of this could have been avoided. Don't cripple your mate.
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