Friday, October 13, 2017
Lets Talk Like Adults: That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout
Lets Talk Like Adults: That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout: I must first start off by saying that for some, Tango Time is just great every time they do it. But not for the reasons you may...
That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout
I must first start off by saying that for some, Tango Time is just great every time they do it. But not for the reasons you may think. For some it started off great and then died off. For some others they are still looking for that ultimate experience. So before we start passing judgment on techniques . I need you to understand that there are some Cupcakes & Candy bars, that sees nothing wrong with their performances. But if you ask their counterparts when they are not present you may very well get a somewhat different viewpoint. That you did not get when they where together. It's like that old saying. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Or there are no fireworks like the 4th of July. But moving right along.
For those of you that can remember when Tango Time was so beautiful and fulfilling and now they just don't seem to hit the mark. Maybe this would be a real good time to make some open book or movie guide references. So this is when you say Stormy what are you talking about? Let me give you some clues. Do you remember reading books like Zane or 50 Shades Of Grey. How about 50 First Dates or Ghost. Do you see where I'm going with this? If you have never read any of them or seen any of the movies. Than maybe this weekend would be a good time to check them out.
When was the last time you and your mate went for a walk together? How about Instead of one of you walking the dog. How about the 2 of you walk the dog together. It would be nice if the 2 of you could go out for coffee/tea , hold hands and just walk and talk. This would be a way to be affectionate and romantic without the Tango Time. If you do it right , it may lead to Tango Time.
If you feel like you can use a little brushing up on your skills. You can be sure that your mate may very well feel the same way. But they may not know how to say it . So learn how to add some adventure in your life. But start off with reachable goals then see where and how you can improve on your skills. Often people know how to do The Tango. But they don't know how to connect with their mate. Or how to be attentive ,romantic or even passionate. This is because they are not reading their partners signals. They are not trying to see what they want . They are assuming things. That is always a fast way to miscommunication which leads to no connection. Which leads to not enjoying intimacy. Which leads to no Great Tango Time. Stop thinking about what you want and pay attention to what their bodies say they want. I promise you will thank me in the morning.
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For those of you that can remember when Tango Time was so beautiful and fulfilling and now they just don't seem to hit the mark. Maybe this would be a real good time to make some open book or movie guide references. So this is when you say Stormy what are you talking about? Let me give you some clues. Do you remember reading books like Zane or 50 Shades Of Grey. How about 50 First Dates or Ghost. Do you see where I'm going with this? If you have never read any of them or seen any of the movies. Than maybe this weekend would be a good time to check them out.
When was the last time you and your mate went for a walk together? How about Instead of one of you walking the dog. How about the 2 of you walk the dog together. It would be nice if the 2 of you could go out for coffee/tea , hold hands and just walk and talk. This would be a way to be affectionate and romantic without the Tango Time. If you do it right , it may lead to Tango Time.
If you feel like you can use a little brushing up on your skills. You can be sure that your mate may very well feel the same way. But they may not know how to say it . So learn how to add some adventure in your life. But start off with reachable goals then see where and how you can improve on your skills. Often people know how to do The Tango. But they don't know how to connect with their mate. Or how to be attentive ,romantic or even passionate. This is because they are not reading their partners signals. They are not trying to see what they want . They are assuming things. That is always a fast way to miscommunication which leads to no connection. Which leads to not enjoying intimacy. Which leads to no Great Tango Time. Stop thinking about what you want and pay attention to what their bodies say they want. I promise you will thank me in the morning.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, October 4, 2017
Relationships Necessity Or Luxury
In life nothing last forever. Sometimes you even get the chance to correct a mistake. Some have to get with somebody else and try again. But on some real Grown-up ish. You must be more aware of you position and what it entails. So people get Luxury Sweets and Necessity Sweets.
When your not #1 and your #2 . You need to fall back and find out what is your job. What is the best way to execute your job. When you go into this unspoken contract if you will. Know what is expected of you. So you don't react in a crazy way when you want something or when they are wanting something from you. So back to you being so grown-up if you will. Some of you can have it all at home. But because you are greedy, you want more than what is allotted to you in your relationship at home. So you will say and do what ever it takes to get more sweets. This is the Brutal Truth. Marital status is not even a part of the equation this can be true if your dating.
So lets be open and frank. If all you want is Tango time because your not getting it at from your Sweets say so. If you just want or need somebody to talk to because your main Sweets don't have time for you say so.
But when your not #1 and your really #2 you need to fall back and enjoy your time when you can get it. For however long you can get it. On some real Grown-up ish. When you start forgetting the position you play and start acting like your #1. Remember there are some responsibilities that come with that job. It may very well be above your Employment status or your Pay Grade. If your second relationship or your main relationship has moved to a different stock level than what it was in the beginning. It may very well be time to sit down and discuss that unspoken contract and see if it can be revised. But keep in mind that with great power in relations comes great responsibilities.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather69
When your not #1 and your #2 . You need to fall back and find out what is your job. What is the best way to execute your job. When you go into this unspoken contract if you will. Know what is expected of you. So you don't react in a crazy way when you want something or when they are wanting something from you. So back to you being so grown-up if you will. Some of you can have it all at home. But because you are greedy, you want more than what is allotted to you in your relationship at home. So you will say and do what ever it takes to get more sweets. This is the Brutal Truth. Marital status is not even a part of the equation this can be true if your dating.
So lets be open and frank. If all you want is Tango time because your not getting it at from your Sweets say so. If you just want or need somebody to talk to because your main Sweets don't have time for you say so.
But when your not #1 and your really #2 you need to fall back and enjoy your time when you can get it. For however long you can get it. On some real Grown-up ish. When you start forgetting the position you play and start acting like your #1. Remember there are some responsibilities that come with that job. It may very well be above your Employment status or your Pay Grade. If your second relationship or your main relationship has moved to a different stock level than what it was in the beginning. It may very well be time to sit down and discuss that unspoken contract and see if it can be revised. But keep in mind that with great power in relations comes great responsibilities.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather69
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