In life nothing last forever. Sometimes you even get the chance to correct a mistake. Some have to get with somebody else and try again. But on some real Grown-up ish. You must be more aware of you position and what it entails. So people get Luxury Sweets and Necessity Sweets.
When your not #1 and your #2 . You need to fall back and find out what is your job. What is the best way to execute your job. When you go into this unspoken contract if you will. Know what is expected of you. So you don't react in a crazy way when you want something or when they are wanting something from you. So back to you being so grown-up if you will. Some of you can have it all at home. But because you are greedy, you want more than what is allotted to you in your relationship at home. So you will say and do what ever it takes to get more sweets. This is the Brutal Truth. Marital status is not even a part of the equation this can be true if your dating.
So lets be open and frank. If all you want is Tango time because your not getting it at from your Sweets say so. If you just want or need somebody to talk to because your main Sweets don't have time for you say so.
But when your not #1 and your really #2 you need to fall back and enjoy your time when you can get it. For however long you can get it. On some real Grown-up ish. When you start forgetting the position you play and start acting like your #1. Remember there are some responsibilities that come with that job. It may very well be above your Employment status or your Pay Grade. If your second relationship or your main relationship has moved to a different stock level than what it was in the beginning. It may very well be time to sit down and discuss that unspoken contract and see if it can be revised. But keep in mind that with great power in relations comes great responsibilities.
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