You know sometimes I don't know how to tell you all the things I feel about you. You know, some times you make me feel like I'm on top of the world. Then in one fail swoop, you can rage a fire in me that no matter how I try to hide it everybody can see it except you. I mean total strangers. But not you! The one who claims to love me. You are blind to it. But when the trees in the forest need to be taken down. I'm all you can see. Now you are ready to Tango, and you won't stop with the hints until your needs are met. You will say Don't you want something sweet? I do. Or how there is too much wood in the house. Or what do you suppose you do with all this hard wear?. Or When was the last time we spent time together Which is another hint for Tango Time?
It's just so funny. Because if I say that I have things to do. Your quick response is Don't worry about that stuff you can do it later. Never mind what I may have to do later. Because every day I Do have something to do.
Like maybe I might want to sit down on my butt and wait for somebody to say honey your dinner is on the table. I might want to have a glass of wine instead of a cup of iced tea, It would even be nice to have a clean kitchen or maybe the dishes cleaned instead of the half-ass job you do, so I have to wash them over again so they may be clean. I know you don't want to wash them either. But hell do I look like I want to cook and wash dishes? Nooo. But I do because I like clean dishes.
As often as I wash laundry. Tell me why I must go on some type of scavenger hunt. To look for what may be dirty in the closet or in your draws or under your side of the bed. Because you can't seem to put your dirty clothes in the hamper. But after I wash, dry and fold the laundry. When I'm putting them all away. Why " for the love of cheesecake" Do I find some more dirty clothes. I will tell you why. Because you don't know how to put YOUR DIRTY clothes where they belong.ðŸ˜
OK. so you leave in the morning for work and for some reason or another you must call and text me at least 5 times a day. You always say you are just checking to see how my day is going. But before you get off the phone. On your way home can you stop and pick up this and that. Or I need you to go by the bank. I need you to make a few calls. Oh yeah, can you please pick up my dry cleaning and get my vitamins for the GNC store.
I also play like I am a bus driver the way I drive the kids back and forth and don't leave out taking the dog to the groomer and replacing the goldfish that our son insists on feeding PB&J sandwiches or hot dogs to. Clearly, I have something to do every day.
But like the alarm that goes off every morning, Although I may be dog tired. You will ask me to perform another service for you so that you can have a good night's sleep. Did you remember to take out the trash this morning, let the dog out, hang up your towel after your shower, load the dishwasher, look over the kid's homework? Answer NO NO NO NO and NO! But If I mention any of this you get angry and say" why must you always find shit to fuss about".
Reply Because I always have shit to do and the list never ends with you, I don't owe you anything its an act of kindness. All that I do is out of love. And with all that I do you can't remember to say Thank you and I Love You.
Love Always
Stormy Weather 69
Thursday, October 24, 2019
Wednesday, June 6, 2018
Funny How Things Change
Its so funny when you meet a person the two of you always have so many things to talk about. This is surpposed to be the time that you both are getting to know each other. You know all of your likes and dislikes. Things that turn you on and off. So you can see if this relationship is worth pursuing. If it's not you can just move on and not talk to the person again. Right?
But,what do you do when you and the other person where friends?. Then what do you do? First if you are going to be in a relationship it's best to be in it with your friend. Because the theory is that if you are friends you will have a greater respect for each other. But there is a flip side to that . Sometimes when you are friends, you should never think about jumping into the dating pool.
Now, I know some of you maybe saying. Why? Well the real truth is. Some people are just not meant to date their friends. What I mean is some friends look at their friends like family. So you just don't see yourself dating them. Then we have the friends that we tell everything to. They may know all so your secrets about you and your dating habits. So they know the type of cunning and conniving things you can and will do when they want out of the relationship. If the relationship doesn't work.
At the same time, you feel like you can be yourself. Right? I have some people that would totally agree with me and some that will totally disagree. There are also some that will disagree with all of this.
So people married their best friend and they say that they are very happy. But did they start off as best friends? Or over time that is who they have become. I say this because marriage comes with a whole new set of challenges. So why am telling you all of this? It's simple everything that works for one group of people. May very well not work for another. That is why it is important to know yourself. Be TRUTHFUL to you so you don't keep making the same mistakes you have made in the past.
It's sad but true. We get in relationships without fixing what is wrong with us first. Or finish mourning or grieving over the past relationship. If you don't have closure or have gotten over the feelings that you once had for somebody. Than you can not honestly move on in a new relationship.
So stop trying you are not ready. And this new relationship will fail like the last.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
But,what do you do when you and the other person where friends?. Then what do you do? First if you are going to be in a relationship it's best to be in it with your friend. Because the theory is that if you are friends you will have a greater respect for each other. But there is a flip side to that . Sometimes when you are friends, you should never think about jumping into the dating pool.
Now, I know some of you maybe saying. Why? Well the real truth is. Some people are just not meant to date their friends. What I mean is some friends look at their friends like family. So you just don't see yourself dating them. Then we have the friends that we tell everything to. They may know all so your secrets about you and your dating habits. So they know the type of cunning and conniving things you can and will do when they want out of the relationship. If the relationship doesn't work.
At the same time, you feel like you can be yourself. Right? I have some people that would totally agree with me and some that will totally disagree. There are also some that will disagree with all of this.
So people married their best friend and they say that they are very happy. But did they start off as best friends? Or over time that is who they have become. I say this because marriage comes with a whole new set of challenges. So why am telling you all of this? It's simple everything that works for one group of people. May very well not work for another. That is why it is important to know yourself. Be TRUTHFUL to you so you don't keep making the same mistakes you have made in the past.
It's sad but true. We get in relationships without fixing what is wrong with us first. Or finish mourning or grieving over the past relationship. If you don't have closure or have gotten over the feelings that you once had for somebody. Than you can not honestly move on in a new relationship.
So stop trying you are not ready. And this new relationship will fail like the last.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Time Out ! Yes I Said Time Out !!!!!
When you get involved in a relationship in the beginning you try to be available , understanding and patient. In hindsight that is good. But how long is that going to work without losing yourself.
Now your feeling that what you have to say is no longer important. They act as if what is going on in their day is more important. And what is going on in yours, not so much.This happens so often in relationships, that it almost becomes second nature. Now is that Right or Wrong I dare not say. Because anyone can fall victim of this behavior . I need you to understand that I'm not passing judgment. I'm simply saying that it doesn't have to be that way. And trust me I know this is easier said than done.
So how do you break the cycle? How do we change or response to our mates. First we need to let ourselves know that we Love Our self and the people in our life are a part of our life, they are not Our Life. We must encourage our love ones to still be individuals. So that we may be individuals as well. We also need to stop being so passive, when they say or do things we really don't like.
Am I saying we should always respond in a defensive way? No. That will bring you a whole new can of problems. But do find a non confrontational way to get your point across. Often our mates don't realize they are taking us for granted . On the other hand they know it, but they just don't give a shit.
Our children are different. They will always need you. But we must encourage them to be independent. Not grow up too fast. but do some things on their own.......
Back to our mates. Do you find time for yourself as much as you find time for them? If the answer is no. Than this Monday or Tuesday is going to be your day. No If And's or Buts. Text them or make a note or call them on the phone and let them know. That your important day is coming up and you are not going to be able to cook, do laundry, child care or run errands. They are going to have to do them their selves. At first they are going to think you are kidding or you can't be serious. But simply assure them that you are. Then go on about your day. At first it will feel crazy. But everything will be fine. If you don't take your Time Out. They will not give it to you.... It's not that you don't still Love them. So don't think like that. You simply need some Me time. So you can be your best when you are giving them their time. Trust me they will get it. good Luck and smile your not alone.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather69
So how do you break the cycle? How do we change or response to our mates. First we need to let ourselves know that we Love Our self and the people in our life are a part of our life, they are not Our Life. We must encourage our love ones to still be individuals. So that we may be individuals as well. We also need to stop being so passive, when they say or do things we really don't like.
Am I saying we should always respond in a defensive way? No. That will bring you a whole new can of problems. But do find a non confrontational way to get your point across. Often our mates don't realize they are taking us for granted . On the other hand they know it, but they just don't give a shit.
Our children are different. They will always need you. But we must encourage them to be independent. Not grow up too fast. but do some things on their own.......
Back to our mates. Do you find time for yourself as much as you find time for them? If the answer is no. Than this Monday or Tuesday is going to be your day. No If And's or Buts. Text them or make a note or call them on the phone and let them know. That your important day is coming up and you are not going to be able to cook, do laundry, child care or run errands. They are going to have to do them their selves. At first they are going to think you are kidding or you can't be serious. But simply assure them that you are. Then go on about your day. At first it will feel crazy. But everything will be fine. If you don't take your Time Out. They will not give it to you.... It's not that you don't still Love them. So don't think like that. You simply need some Me time. So you can be your best when you are giving them their time. Trust me they will get it. good Luck and smile your not alone.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather69
Thursday, December 21, 2017
Our Tango Fantasies You vs Me
When you think of us and Our Tango Fantasies what comes to mind ? Would you say that most fantasies are more about you or more about me? Please make sure you think about your answers. Before you answer the questions ,you don't want to scare your mate. Nor make them feel like they are not enough for you or you for them. The answers can only be You or Me . Remember there are no wrong answers. Have fun (smile)
1. Getting tied up
2. Tying someone up
3. Role-playing
4. Domination
5. Voyeurism
6. Reindeer games ( anal)
7. Tango time in public place
8. Striptease
9. Pretending we're strangers
10. Swinging
11. Using blindfolds
12.Watching porn together
13. Using a vibrator together
14. Incorporating condiments
15. Menage `a trios
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
1. Getting tied up
2. Tying someone up
3. Role-playing
4. Domination
5. Voyeurism
6. Reindeer games ( anal)
7. Tango time in public place
8. Striptease
9. Pretending we're strangers
10. Swinging
11. Using blindfolds
12.Watching porn together
13. Using a vibrator together
14. Incorporating condiments
15. Menage `a trios
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
How Do You View Our Tango Life
Well I often get asked about The Tango Quiz and when was I going to post one. So I thought that now would be just as good of a time as any. So here are a few tango time questions. How would you describe Your Tango Life. Your answers can only have 1 of 3 answers.
Which are, Too much / Not enough / Just right.
1. How do you feel about the number of times we have Tango time each week?
2. How do you feel about your level of role-playing?
3. How do you feel about the frequency of oral tango / desktop we have?
4. How do you feel about how much lingerie is worn?
5. How's my level of general, everyday affection toward you?
6. How do you feel about how often I give you a massages?
7. How are we doing with trying new things sexually in general?
8. How's our level of experimenting with different positions ?
9. How do you feel about how often you initiate tango?
10. How do you feel about how often I initiate tango?
Now as I said you can only pick 1 of 3 answers for each question. There is no right or wrong answer what you are trying to do is get a better understanding of your mate and how they may view you. Hopefully your answers will encourage you, to do better in the Tango Time you share and to not be so critical of your mate. I hope you enjoy. Please feel free to make comments. And checkout, Our Tango Fantasies Quiz.
As always have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Which are, Too much / Not enough / Just right.
1. How do you feel about the number of times we have Tango time each week?
2. How do you feel about your level of role-playing?
3. How do you feel about the frequency of oral tango / desktop we have?
4. How do you feel about how much lingerie is worn?
5. How's my level of general, everyday affection toward you?
6. How do you feel about how often I give you a massages?
7. How are we doing with trying new things sexually in general?
8. How's our level of experimenting with different positions ?
9. How do you feel about how often you initiate tango?
10. How do you feel about how often I initiate tango?
Now as I said you can only pick 1 of 3 answers for each question. There is no right or wrong answer what you are trying to do is get a better understanding of your mate and how they may view you. Hopefully your answers will encourage you, to do better in the Tango Time you share and to not be so critical of your mate. I hope you enjoy. Please feel free to make comments. And checkout, Our Tango Fantasies Quiz.
As always have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Thursday, November 2, 2017
Is The Change Worth It ?
It's So funny how things change when You decide what is good for me and I do what is Best for Me . You see , I have found that I have truly given you too much power and control over what is best for me. As if you know me better than I know myself . I mean really? You say how you like my hair, what type of clothes I should wear. The way and when we should have Tango time . Among all the other things that I choose to do for you. I guess this is also the reason why we can't talk anymore. But for the life of me I can't figure out why I have allowed you to do it for so long. You know at first I thought that I could be slipping on my drag. Or maybe I just was falling on my Getty Up. You Know, Not polishing My Brass. So I looked at what you said ,as away of telling me. To tighten up my thang. But as time moved on as I said you started changing the very things that made me be Me. You where no longer happy with the person you met so much so that instead of excepting me. You decided to change me into who you wanted. Never mind that the person you said you loved was very content with whom they have grown to be. I thought that you fell in love with that person.
At least that is what I thought. I mean you said you loved me . But could it be true? You where only in like with me and in love with the person you where trying to create in my being. I don't know how this has gotten started . But I'm determined to make it stop. Because the more I look at the person I have become to please you. The less I see of myself. I was always told that you must give of yourself in a marriage. So you can both be happy. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between 2 people. Meaning that both of you should be giving of yourself to please your mate. Do the things that I like and I do the things you like. You should be complimenting each other. What ever happen to the things that once brought us both so much joy and happiness. I know things change people change. But if you truly love me, as I love you. We should be bringing out the Best in each other.But it should never be to the point that one losses one's self. That is not Love that is a Dictatorship. Or like master and servant. That is not love or like . I guess that is why we are no longer happy in our relationship. Or why we no longer talk.
Before we start trying to change the people we say we care and love . Look at them real close and make sure it's worth the change. You may very well be taking away the core of the person. That made you want to be with them in the first place. Just Something to think about.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
At least that is what I thought. I mean you said you loved me . But could it be true? You where only in like with me and in love with the person you where trying to create in my being. I don't know how this has gotten started . But I'm determined to make it stop. Because the more I look at the person I have become to please you. The less I see of myself. I was always told that you must give of yourself in a marriage. So you can both be happy. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between 2 people. Meaning that both of you should be giving of yourself to please your mate. Do the things that I like and I do the things you like. You should be complimenting each other. What ever happen to the things that once brought us both so much joy and happiness. I know things change people change. But if you truly love me, as I love you. We should be bringing out the Best in each other.But it should never be to the point that one losses one's self. That is not Love that is a Dictatorship. Or like master and servant. That is not love or like . I guess that is why we are no longer happy in our relationship. Or why we no longer talk.
Before we start trying to change the people we say we care and love . Look at them real close and make sure it's worth the change. You may very well be taking away the core of the person. That made you want to be with them in the first place. Just Something to think about.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Friday, October 13, 2017
Lets Talk Like Adults: That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout
Lets Talk Like Adults: That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout: I must first start off by saying that for some, Tango Time is just great every time they do it. But not for the reasons you may...
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