Its so funny when you meet a person the two of you always have so many things to talk about. This is surpposed to be the time that you both are getting to know each other. You know all of your likes and dislikes. Things that turn you on and off. So you can see if this relationship is worth pursuing. If it's not you can just move on and not talk to the person again. Right?
But,what do you do when you and the other person where friends?. Then what do you do? First if you are going to be in a relationship it's best to be in it with your friend. Because the theory is that if you are friends you will have a greater respect for each other. But there is a flip side to that . Sometimes when you are friends, you should never think about jumping into the dating pool.
Now, I know some of you maybe saying. Why? Well the real truth is. Some people are just not meant to date their friends. What I mean is some friends look at their friends like family. So you just don't see yourself dating them. Then we have the friends that we tell everything to. They may know all so your secrets about you and your dating habits. So they know the type of cunning and conniving things you can and will do when they want out of the relationship. If the relationship doesn't work.
At the same time, you feel like you can be yourself. Right? I have some people that would totally agree with me and some that will totally disagree. There are also some that will disagree with all of this.
So people married their best friend and they say that they are very happy. But did they start off as best friends? Or over time that is who they have become. I say this because marriage comes with a whole new set of challenges. So why am telling you all of this? It's simple everything that works for one group of people. May very well not work for another. That is why it is important to know yourself. Be TRUTHFUL to you so you don't keep making the same mistakes you have made in the past.
It's sad but true. We get in relationships without fixing what is wrong with us first. Or finish mourning or grieving over the past relationship. If you don't have closure or have gotten over the feelings that you once had for somebody. Than you can not honestly move on in a new relationship.
So stop trying you are not ready. And this new relationship will fail like the last.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
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