Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Are You Still Fakeing It ?

 I got a email  last Wednesday from a viewer who asked if its normal that her mate won't watch flicks with her?. Yes it is, some men fell like its disrespecting you, Some men fell like they just can't be comfortable or be their natural self. How long have the 2 of you been together? Maybe he has not come to that level in the relationship yet where he can share that part of himself.
 Lets just say for kicks, when the two of you first started having sex together it was the bomb. You could not get enough of each other. The person they were with before you. Just did not do all that you do in bed. Not even half of the things you know how to do. So when the two of you have sex its like a real Fuck Fest  or Porn Flicks at it's best with all the major stars.
But then you find yourself doing all the work. Now, every body wants to be a star in their own right exceptionally in the bed. But when are they going to show you all that they have in their arsenal. Exceptionally when they keep trying the same moves they did when you first started out. When you were learning each other. The two of you  have been together having great sex for the past 4 years now. Or could it be that you have been given Great sex for 4 years and they have just been receiving it without putting out. Now your partner wants to try something new out of nowhere, You know, add a little spice, they want to have a threesome . Which would be great if they could even work like you do sexually now. Because right now your just making them feel like they are satisfying you even though they are not. Now back to tagging in a third party,What are they going to do with another person in the mix when they can't Handel you now. Is this other person for you or for them if it's for you than you should pic which sex you add in the mix and if its for them they should do the same. Could it be that they just want to have sex with another and you being there just means you give them the OK? Could it be that you just don't do it for them anymore? Or they don't do it for you? Please remember NOT TO USE A FRIEND OR SOMEBODY YOU GUYS KNOW. I know some of you out there are saying what? are you crazy? Then who?. A stranger is best. and thats why you use PROTECTION ladies and gentelmen. So,when you tell your mate that you would like to involve another person be sure that you really talk about it because it could turn out real bad in a matter of moments.
Enjoy sex but always protect your self and the one your with.

2 comments:

  1. Hey Stormy I guess I never thought about it that way before. Maybe if I did my best friend and I would still be best friends. Instead she is my exboy friend's son's mother.We don't talk anymore. Im married to somebody eles so is he with 2kids. He and the ex friend hate eachother. I wish you wrote this years ago. But Thanks for future knowledge.

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  2. Thats right!! Protect yourself people!

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