Emotions And Sex Are They In A Relationship? When Your Not!

First I want to answer a email I got last week. Ms. Library, You stated last week that somebody wants someone for more than a booty call. Because she is really feeling this guy. What she may need to ask her self is. Is she into this guy? Or is he just a real great sex partner? Outside of sex what eles do the 2 of them do together? How does he feel about her? Before things get too out of control they may want to talk about how they feel about each other.

Dating is fine when you are single; sometimes one date is all you need from a person to know that you don’t want to go out with them again. Other dates take multiple times before you find out it not working per say. But then you have those people where the sex is so great that you don’t want to be involved with other people so the two of you have this unspoken understanding about your sexual relationship, and it works.

Now the two of you clearly have an understanding of what this relationship is about. Right?  Or Do You? 

So when and why did emotions get involved? Although everything about the two of you says you are a couple. Except your mouth that is. Explain this. You go to a restaurant with your family and you see your friend clearly on a date. Now all of a sudden you have these feelings you can’t explain, because as far as everybody is concerned. You guys are just friends. But if this is true, then why do you feel like you are being disrespected in some fashion. It’s only a friendship with great sex. Right?

Question: Should you quickly get out of a sexual arrangement when you find yourself emotionally involved?

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