The Anniversary Is Only A Few Months Away

Seeing that I can count these are just estimates.But you will see my point. In a 7 year marriage we manage to have 2,555 dinners 168 movie nights and sex at least.3,287 or something close to that.Which means that dinner or a movie or given my best in a bedroom is not going to cut it this year.  Jewelry, I buy for her just because. She is not impressed by things you can buy. That is why, I helped plant flowers that bloom all year and a rose bush that blooms every spring so we could have fresh flowers in the house. Because that is your thing.  When your not feeling well, I could pinch off just 1 being careful not to stunt their growth and bring it to your bedside with some hot tea or orange juice and aspirin. Just to say I love you and  that you are still just as beautiful to me.
You wake me up every morning for work even when I kept you awake with my snoring. My shirts always look brand new.Who sews, repairs and cleans my clothes or protects my health and well being.  No one but you. You find the time to have lunch with me at 2:00 You always listen to my speech 1,000 times before I bring it to the board. You are The Best host when I need to entertain a new client. You work that kitchen like a chef every time you go in and something good always comes out.You make heads turn when you walk in a room and I'm proud to say that's my wife.The  sexual intensity and the adventures we have shared could not have come from any script. Vacations are  always full of energy,even the one we spent at home. I look forward to you reading me poetry as we recline next to each other or just sitting on the porch enjoying the fresh air. Playing cards with you or serenading each other with songs from the radio. I'm glad that I have done these things with you
We may not always see eye to eye . We may even disagree. But the most important part is that we respect and love each other A Great man is a Husband and a Wife is she. Happy Anniversary To Husband & Wife

Enjoying Sex Again In The Other Stage Of Life And It's Still Good

Happy days are back after 18 years of marriage and 3 children, 2 grandchildren and a column called Lets Talk Like Adults. My parents have been married for 18 years but the spice has been missing for along time. So I told my mother about your column that I read and so she started reading them.( Says a reader that emailed me Thursday.) The reader goes on to say, she talked her parents into going on a long weekend away for a little quality time just the 2 of them. That was a month ago. She goes on to say that she and her mother went out for lunch and she asked her mother how was the weekend. Her mothers reply was which weekend with a light smile. Curious, she said the one you went on, when you went to New Hampshire, why are you smiling like that was it that good? The woman replied it was better than good, it was great! we had so much fun and we even had sex like we did years ago. We watched the sun rise from our balcony as we snuggled in our blanket naked. We never felt so full of life and sexy. The woman told her daughter thank you. Because of you, your father and I have found the thing we fell in love with  years ago.We had such a good time and we went horseback riding on a snowy trail came back to the cabin and made love near a fireplace and I felt beautiful. He looked at me in away he had not done in years.It was so exciting and there was nobody around to say they needed us for anything. It was The Best time we have had in years. The woman also said that she and her husband  made a promise that they would not let time pass them by with out enjoying it anymore.
                  After I read the email in its entirety I was so happy to hear that my column helps people breath life back into their sex life. I hope when people read my columns they become inspired to enjoy sex as they once did or that its better than it was before.You are supposed to enjoy life and sex is a part of life. All I ask, is that you do it responsibly.

So Board With Sex, But I Still Love You

How can this be so? You are so in love with your spouse or mate but sexually you are board.  What has changed, that something that used to make your insides ache to have  has become so stagnant. Do you even know what has happen to the enjoyment that the 2 of you once shared. OK I will tell you . The care you put into getting ready is gone. All the extras you use to do are just not worth it , so you say. That shower he used to take when he did that extra wash under his scrotum or how about  that good scrubbing  you use to make sure  your tail smelled good for when you want to ride him backwards. Why don't the two of you do it in the shower anymore.
                 All of these changes stems from one reason and one reason only you all are too comfortable  in your relationships. Some of you feel like if the other person wants it. let them get it like it is. Wrong! Some of you say that you have a career and don't have time to be doing all that extra stuff like putting on a little lotion. Or brushing your teeth when you know that your going to be breathing in some body's face. Why can't you put that scarf on after you are finish, you didn't wear it when you first started having sex back in the day. Why now.?  or how about the one I love the most. You can't be serious I have a early morning tomorrow,  can we do this later? Well didn't you have a job when you first started getting The Cookie. All these excuses are just that. Meaning you don't have any real reason. And Please Stop!!!! Using The Kids as a reason. Put their tails to bed early, so you can get some tail. You have got to put some effort in your sex life in order to have a sex life . You don't want crumbs so why are you expecting your mate to like them. Lets try a little exercise include these little things before we engage in the boring sexual act. #1 act as if you have never had sex with this person so take your time in the shower and wash everything. #2 brush and gargle you will be breathing in someones face. #3a little lotion and a little smell good can go a long way . #4 put on some music to set the mood and a candle won't hurt it could only help. #5 Lay the alarm clock down you don't need to know how long is this going to take.#6 Don't rush it, take the time to enjoy foreplay.Remember if you enjoy oral sex done to you . Your mate should enjoy the same pleasure from you. Don't be selfish, make it count.  It will make the sex that much better.

Sexual Freedom Why Should You Be Denied The Luxury

If we as people where more responsible and took ownership over our actions we would have more freedom to say what we want and what we like. Whether it is what we do to other people or what we like done to us. The truth is most people hide their true sexual self and often from their own selves. This past Monday a man e-mailed me just to say I wish I could hear everything you said at one of your events. My lady of 7 years, reads your column faithfully myself I don't have the time. But anyway. He goes on to say that during a Superbowl party this past Sunday. His team was getting their ass handed to them. Which sucks because he was real excited about having this big party considering they just brought a new house overlooking the beach. Her family has finally excepted him and he just got a promotion at work. So he goes on to say, it was nice to have his friends over to watch the Superbowl but his team was loosing and that sucks. With all that was going on and his friends where giving him the shit, His lady said in his ear with a smile (no matter which teams wins the Superbowl after your guest leave it will all be a distant memory.) He looked at her and said yea right. 
        So the game was over his team lost and he had to payup  his friends where getting themselves together to go. They thanked his lady for everything and said goodnight. As he locked the door  she was walking  in the kitchen when he heard her say why don't you go out on the deck and I will bring you something. He said OK but nothing prepared him for what happened next. His lady came out on the deck with only a pair of high heels on. She told him that she has been waiting for Superbowl night for 5 weeks, and she plans to make it a night he will never forget.  The sexual experience that night was amazing. The 2 of them broke the recliner chair and a planter but It was so exciting and invigorating that he  didn't care. He went on to say that she has been more adventurous since she started reading your column that we are more open with each other now. So Thank You for everything. Because the columns you wright, like you said before is to help keep the spice and fire in couples relationships,and that is what you do . You don't tell people they have to do it, but you give couples little scenarios and you let them make the decision for themselves. By the way, he goes on to  say his lady  was also right  he can't remember what the score was or even memorable plays from the game.