So Board With Sex, But I Still Love You

How can this be so? You are so in love with your spouse or mate but sexually you are board.  What has changed, that something that used to make your insides ache to have  has become so stagnant. Do you even know what has happen to the enjoyment that the 2 of you once shared. OK I will tell you . The care you put into getting ready is gone. All the extras you use to do are just not worth it , so you say. That shower he used to take when he did that extra wash under his scrotum or how about  that good scrubbing  you use to make sure  your tail smelled good for when you want to ride him backwards. Why don't the two of you do it in the shower anymore.
                 All of these changes stems from one reason and one reason only you all are too comfortable  in your relationships. Some of you feel like if the other person wants it. let them get it like it is. Wrong! Some of you say that you have a career and don't have time to be doing all that extra stuff like putting on a little lotion. Or brushing your teeth when you know that your going to be breathing in some body's face. Why can't you put that scarf on after you are finish, you didn't wear it when you first started having sex back in the day. Why now.?  or how about the one I love the most. You can't be serious I have a early morning tomorrow,  can we do this later? Well didn't you have a job when you first started getting The Cookie. All these excuses are just that. Meaning you don't have any real reason. And Please Stop!!!! Using The Kids as a reason. Put their tails to bed early, so you can get some tail. You have got to put some effort in your sex life in order to have a sex life . You don't want crumbs so why are you expecting your mate to like them. Lets try a little exercise include these little things before we engage in the boring sexual act. #1 act as if you have never had sex with this person so take your time in the shower and wash everything. #2 brush and gargle you will be breathing in someones face. #3a little lotion and a little smell good can go a long way . #4 put on some music to set the mood and a candle won't hurt it could only help. #5 Lay the alarm clock down you don't need to know how long is this going to take.#6 Don't rush it, take the time to enjoy foreplay.Remember if you enjoy oral sex done to you . Your mate should enjoy the same pleasure from you. Don't be selfish, make it count.  It will make the sex that much better.