When your trying to create that amazing experience keep in mind that your lover wants to enjoy the moment just as much as you.What really matters is creating a comfortable setting that helps the two of you feel sexy,confident about yourselves.
Now how to create a sexy scene. You must make sure your environment is ready for sex. Candy Bars are visual creatures.Cupcakes are emotional creatures. But you both are turned on by sense of smell and sounds. Meaning make sure everything is clean The room that the activity is going to take place in. And yourselves. This is where your scavenger hunt comes into play. Make sure anything that doesn't need hair doesn't have any, be sure your nails are clean and smooth this also includes toe nails.Take the extra care in oral hygiene. Cupcakes after you have your shower. Now would be a good time to apply your makeup if your going to wear any. Candy Bars a energy boost would be great now and if you need to shave please do so. Make sure you use a moisturiser so your skin can feel good next to your Lovers skin. Because believe it or not clean & soft is Sexy.
Now how to set your lover on simmer. Send a heart pumping call to your lover's phone when they will have no choice but to comply.Or preset a appointment for your lover on their personal calander earlier in the day and let them know that it can't be canceled.
So here is a small check list to help you keep things in order.Keep a open mind and you just may find some of this very enjoyable.
1. Lighting - set candles for soft romantic glow Which can also help you hide those extra pounds
2. Music- pre-load the perfect mood music that can play for hours when the moment is right.
3. Smells- should be light, easy like lavender it's very soothing
4. Food - If you plane on a meal make sure it's very light and nothing that will make you gassy, or too greasy.
5. Bath time- make sure the water is not too hot, and you don't fill the tube too high. So when you or your Lover get in it won't over flow and make a mess.
6. Massage- If a little relaxation is in order before your sexual escapade starts remember don't do too much that you get tired or your Lover gets so relaxed that they fall asleep.
Now lets bring all of The Sights,Sound and Seductions together. Turn your Lover on by pleasuring yourself. not only will it stimulate them . But they will also see what turns you on and how to please you. Your Lover will find it sexy. Pay attention to your Lover.You may find out something new,that you both enjoy.
Remember this is something you both want . So don't be too controlling , But don't be a push over. Ask if they like what you are doing or if this pleases them. But don't talk too much or they may feel like they are back in school. Then they may get turned off. Enjoy the orgasmic touches you give each other enhanced by the passion and intimacy of sexual sparks you will send to each other. Sex is supposed to be beautiful full of passion and enjoyable. To Both of you.
As always have sex responsibly......... Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, November 18, 2015
Wednesday, November 11, 2015
When You Are Getting Special Attention, Are You Obligated To Do The Same?
Hanging out with some people the conversation about oral sex came up, and whether or not you should be obligated to give what you receive. Well lets just look at it this way.There is 365 days in a year . At 3 meals a day. If your are given a half a slice of bread and water each time at meal time . But you know for a fact that there is more to eat . Although it was never given to you or even offered. How long will you still keep on eating this half a slice . Before you are going to inquire about something different to eat. Or go out to eat where you know for a fact they have something more to offer.
So why should this be any different. I often hear this come up and the truth is, the answer to this on going question to be perfectly honest is No. But, what you should be asking your self is. How often do you honestly think you will continue to receive oral pleasure from a person and they are not going to be looking for it in return.
If they are trying to satisfy you with more than one form of sexual or oral pleasure. Your body chemistry and responses say that you are satisfied or that you are enjoying the pleasure that they're performing on you.Then why would you think your Lover should want anything less in return from you . I'm not saying you have to do it all the time. But if you require or desire to be sexually pleased through oral sex. Then at some point you need to be willing to perform for your Lover as often as you receive it. When you know that they enjoy it just as much as you do.
Now it's understandable if you don't know how to perform like a pro. But it would be in your best interest to learn how. Now a days there are so many ways to perfect your love making skills. Like books, DVD,movies, the internet. In the adult stores you can even get lickable gels,lotions, dusting powder or flavor full condoms. Truthfully there is no reason why you cant be one of the best lovers your lover has ever had. Practice makes perfect you just have to apply yourself.
As always have sex responsibly be good to yourself and others. If you have any questions you can always leave me the question in the comment box below or email me at stormy.weather69@yahoo.com
So why should this be any different. I often hear this come up and the truth is, the answer to this on going question to be perfectly honest is No. But, what you should be asking your self is. How often do you honestly think you will continue to receive oral pleasure from a person and they are not going to be looking for it in return.
If they are trying to satisfy you with more than one form of sexual or oral pleasure. Your body chemistry and responses say that you are satisfied or that you are enjoying the pleasure that they're performing on you.Then why would you think your Lover should want anything less in return from you . I'm not saying you have to do it all the time. But if you require or desire to be sexually pleased through oral sex. Then at some point you need to be willing to perform for your Lover as often as you receive it. When you know that they enjoy it just as much as you do.
Now it's understandable if you don't know how to perform like a pro. But it would be in your best interest to learn how. Now a days there are so many ways to perfect your love making skills. Like books, DVD,movies, the internet. In the adult stores you can even get lickable gels,lotions, dusting powder or flavor full condoms. Truthfully there is no reason why you cant be one of the best lovers your lover has ever had. Practice makes perfect you just have to apply yourself.
As always have sex responsibly be good to yourself and others. If you have any questions you can always leave me the question in the comment box below or email me at stormy.weather69@yahoo.com
Thursday, November 5, 2015
Sex Love Romance What Do You Think?
Just to show you how real life works. I'm going to start off by saying that not everybody is going to agree with what I'm about to say. But it is the truth. Romance, Sex ,Love are not all one in the same. Just because you are in love with someone dose not mean you can no longer have romantic feelings for another.That being said, it also dose not mean that the desire to have sex with another is not going to or will not ever happen, Just because you are involved with another. Now I know a lot of people may feel that this is wrong. But honestly it's not . Your commitment to the person is not the only thing that determines if you will or will not get involved with another. It's called free will.
Now when I say commitment I don't mean marriage. Because you can commit without marriage ever taken place. So lets make sure we are clear on that. Some of my Cupcakes may think that I have lost my mind totally .Some of my Candy bars are willing to agree before they even finish hearing me out. That's because they are thinking they just got a pass. Sorry to disappoint you. But I'm still a firm believer don't do anything that you are not fully ready to handle the outcome of. Which brings me to this couple. For some reason they are sexually attracted to each other. At first their relationship was simply business. And for a year they have been able to keep their relationship professional . But one day they sat and talked about how they are attracted to each other. They have tried to deny how they felt, but it did not last. They do not want to leave the relationships that they are in. But they do still find themselves wanting and desiring to be each other sexually.
To be honest I was not shocked to find this out. This happens more often than you might think. The difference is most people won't admit that they have these feelings or that they even act on them. These 2 people that I myself interviewed. Where very honest and forthcoming as they answered my questions.When we spoke one on one. They held each other in a high regard. They spoke of their feelings and even though they care for each other deeply. They would never do anything to hurt the people that they are involved with. There is just something they are missing in their other relationships that these 2 found in each other.
Now on to a lady that I interviewed. She has told me that she is happily married. But her husband is not turning her on anymore. He also dose not even try. But he makes it a point to tell her how much they don't have relations anymore. When I asked what changed? She said that he used to take extra care with himself when they first got together.But after 5 years of marriage.He acts as if she is nagging him when she asked if he is going to shower or brush his teeth. Just freshen up a little. But she would not even think to offer her cupcakes without washing first.But if he is going out with some friends he will shower and use lotion and cologne. Yet he always wants her too look like a supermodel or dress sexy. She says she dose not mind keeping this look for him and even more. But why won't he take the same care for her as she dose for him.
Now to my last man I interviewed. He is everything that a woman could or would want. Hard working.educated, very dedicated, has his own home Been on the same job for years. Has not outside children.Recently turned 40. He want to marry a woman and start a family. But he wants one of his own. Not a ready made family. He says he cant find this to save his life. He meets nice ladies but they keep falling short. Real short. He is getting tired of dating and a friend says that he is just too picky. He knows how to treat a lady, He wants to share his life with somebody who share some of the same interest.
Now although I have given each individual my 1 on 1 with Stormy Weather 69 to help them with their situations. I would like to know what you my readers think, So please leave you comments below. As always have sex responsibly Love always Stormy Weather 69
Now when I say commitment I don't mean marriage. Because you can commit without marriage ever taken place. So lets make sure we are clear on that. Some of my Cupcakes may think that I have lost my mind totally .Some of my Candy bars are willing to agree before they even finish hearing me out. That's because they are thinking they just got a pass. Sorry to disappoint you. But I'm still a firm believer don't do anything that you are not fully ready to handle the outcome of. Which brings me to this couple. For some reason they are sexually attracted to each other. At first their relationship was simply business. And for a year they have been able to keep their relationship professional . But one day they sat and talked about how they are attracted to each other. They have tried to deny how they felt, but it did not last. They do not want to leave the relationships that they are in. But they do still find themselves wanting and desiring to be each other sexually.
To be honest I was not shocked to find this out. This happens more often than you might think. The difference is most people won't admit that they have these feelings or that they even act on them. These 2 people that I myself interviewed. Where very honest and forthcoming as they answered my questions.When we spoke one on one. They held each other in a high regard. They spoke of their feelings and even though they care for each other deeply. They would never do anything to hurt the people that they are involved with. There is just something they are missing in their other relationships that these 2 found in each other.
Now on to a lady that I interviewed. She has told me that she is happily married. But her husband is not turning her on anymore. He also dose not even try. But he makes it a point to tell her how much they don't have relations anymore. When I asked what changed? She said that he used to take extra care with himself when they first got together.But after 5 years of marriage.He acts as if she is nagging him when she asked if he is going to shower or brush his teeth. Just freshen up a little. But she would not even think to offer her cupcakes without washing first.But if he is going out with some friends he will shower and use lotion and cologne. Yet he always wants her too look like a supermodel or dress sexy. She says she dose not mind keeping this look for him and even more. But why won't he take the same care for her as she dose for him.
Now to my last man I interviewed. He is everything that a woman could or would want. Hard working.educated, very dedicated, has his own home Been on the same job for years. Has not outside children.Recently turned 40. He want to marry a woman and start a family. But he wants one of his own. Not a ready made family. He says he cant find this to save his life. He meets nice ladies but they keep falling short. Real short. He is getting tired of dating and a friend says that he is just too picky. He knows how to treat a lady, He wants to share his life with somebody who share some of the same interest.
Now although I have given each individual my 1 on 1 with Stormy Weather 69 to help them with their situations. I would like to know what you my readers think, So please leave you comments below. As always have sex responsibly Love always Stormy Weather 69
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