Just to show you how real life works. I'm going to start off by saying that not everybody is going to agree with what I'm about to say. But it is the truth. Romance, Sex ,Love are not all one in the same. Just because you are in love with someone dose not mean you can no longer have romantic feelings for another.That being said, it also dose not mean that the desire to have sex with another is not going to or will not ever happen, Just because you are involved with another. Now I know a lot of people may feel that this is wrong. But honestly it's not . Your commitment to the person is not the only thing that determines if you will or will not get involved with another. It's called free will.
Now when I say commitment I don't mean marriage. Because you can commit without marriage ever taken place. So lets make sure we are clear on that. Some of my Cupcakes may think that I have lost my mind totally .Some of my Candy bars are willing to agree before they even finish hearing me out. That's because they are thinking they just got a pass. Sorry to disappoint you. But I'm still a firm believer don't do anything that you are not fully ready to handle the outcome of. Which brings me to this couple. For some reason they are sexually attracted to each other. At first their relationship was simply business. And for a year they have been able to keep their relationship professional . But one day they sat and talked about how they are attracted to each other. They have tried to deny how they felt, but it did not last. They do not want to leave the relationships that they are in. But they do still find themselves wanting and desiring to be each other sexually.
To be honest I was not shocked to find this out. This happens more often than you might think. The difference is most people won't admit that they have these feelings or that they even act on them. These 2 people that I myself interviewed. Where very honest and forthcoming as they answered my questions.When we spoke one on one. They held each other in a high regard. They spoke of their feelings and even though they care for each other deeply. They would never do anything to hurt the people that they are involved with. There is just something they are missing in their other relationships that these 2 found in each other.
Now on to a lady that I interviewed. She has told me that she is happily married. But her husband is not turning her on anymore. He also dose not even try. But he makes it a point to tell her how much they don't have relations anymore. When I asked what changed? She said that he used to take extra care with himself when they first got together.But after 5 years of marriage.He acts as if she is nagging him when she asked if he is going to shower or brush his teeth. Just freshen up a little. But she would not even think to offer her cupcakes without washing first.But if he is going out with some friends he will shower and use lotion and cologne. Yet he always wants her too look like a supermodel or dress sexy. She says she dose not mind keeping this look for him and even more. But why won't he take the same care for her as she dose for him.
Now to my last man I interviewed. He is everything that a woman could or would want. Hard working.educated, very dedicated, has his own home Been on the same job for years. Has not outside children.Recently turned 40. He want to marry a woman and start a family. But he wants one of his own. Not a ready made family. He says he cant find this to save his life. He meets nice ladies but they keep falling short. Real short. He is getting tired of dating and a friend says that he is just too picky. He knows how to treat a lady, He wants to share his life with somebody who share some of the same interest.
Now although I have given each individual my 1 on 1 with Stormy Weather 69 to help them with their situations. I would like to know what you my readers think, So please leave you comments below. As always have sex responsibly Love always Stormy Weather 69
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