When You Are Getting Special Attention, Are You Obligated To Do The Same?

                 Hanging out with some people the conversation about oral sex came up, and whether or not you should be obligated to give what you receive. Well lets just look at it this way.There is 365 days in a year . At 3 meals a day. If your are given a half a slice of bread and water each time at meal time . But you  know for a fact that there is more to eat . Although it was never given to you or even offered. How long will you still keep on eating this half a slice . Before you are going to inquire about something different to eat. Or go out to eat where you know for a fact they have something more to offer.
                 So why should this be any different. I often hear this come up and the truth is, the answer to this on going question to be perfectly honest is No. But, what you should be asking your self is. How often do you honestly think you will continue to receive oral pleasure from a person and they are not going to be looking for it in return.
                   If they are trying to satisfy you with more than one form of sexual or oral pleasure. Your body chemistry and responses say that you are satisfied or that you are enjoying the pleasure that they're performing on you.Then why would you think your Lover should want anything less in return from you . I'm not saying you have to do it all the time.  But if you require or desire to be sexually pleased through oral sex. Then at some point you need to be willing to perform for your Lover as often as you receive it. When you know that they enjoy it just as much as you do.
                  Now it's understandable if you don't know how to perform like a pro. But it would be in your best interest to learn how. Now a days there are so many ways to perfect your love making skills. Like books, DVD,movies, the internet. In the adult stores you can even get lickable gels,lotions, dusting powder or flavor full condoms.  Truthfully there is no reason why you cant be one of the best lovers your lover has ever had. Practice makes perfect you just have to apply yourself.
                   As always have sex responsibly be good to yourself and others. If you have any questions you can always leave me the question in the comment box below or email me at stormy.weather69@yahoo.com