How Do I Keep Getting The Same People With Different Names

      I want to start this column off first by saying that I apologize for being away so long. I  have been  under the weather quite a bit. And between my transitional period for the New Year. I was a bit overwhelmed with my personal life and I have neglected you all. But that is over and I will try not to let it  happen again. If I can help it. So let's just get right into it ok. I have received some emails. And a few of them had the same question. So, I figured I would make this column be about that question.
         Often we get involved with people and we have no idea what attracted us to them so much. Not realizing that each time we get involved with a person. Even though we say what type of person we don't want to be involved with. Those are the people that we tend to attract. The question is, Is it on purpose or is it simply our subconscious.  Believe it or not it's a signal that you're putting out. You say that you don't want to be with some body who has a lot of baggage. all the universe hears is a person with baggage because you emphasize and you stress so much about what you don't want. Why not try saying I would like someone who is very compatible to your self , goal driven, share your views,independence,passionate,understanding has a sense of self worth. Not afraid of commitment and someone who could be attentive to you.  Or what ever it is you want.Now when you put it like that. You may find out that there are more doors opening and a different type of person coming through or waiting for you on the other side. Don't concentrate so much on the type of person you do not want.  Try concentrating more on the type of people you want to be associated with.  Start  to live your life that way everyday.  It will start to make things a whole lot easier.  When it comes to meeting someone that you want to be involved with. That would also include the type of places you go. To the type of people you hang around and or you allowed to hang around with you.
       You remember the old saying you are what you eat. Well the same thing applies you are what you think & what you say and if you say negative things on your behalf.  Then negative is what you will receive. So if you would like your mate to treat you a certain way,  then don't tell them what they don't do or what they don't have . Try saying what you would like them to do. Try saying what you want to do with them as a couple. To improve as a couple.
               Until you change the way you think and the things you say. You will continue to receive the exact same style of people you have been attracting in your life. This is a proven fact. an opinion. This is a new year so turn over a new leaf.  Start with the small things first.  Do some self inventory. It won't be hard Don't lead the New relationship with sex first. Don't use sex to mend a broken relationship or you will be back to square one again. Trying to figure out why are you involved with this type of  person again.  I hope this helped. As always be good to yourself and have sex responsibility. Love Stormy Weather 69. Feel free to make comments like or share this column with other people