Secret Sex Lives Are You Keeping The Secret ?

           Cupcakes & Candy Bars alike say  they feel that sometimes, the sex is so good that you want to tell just one person. Not to gloat , but because of the enjoyment they have found. Like when you find a great restaurant or fine bottle of wine. You want to talk or tell somebody how much you enjoyed it . But you don't want to say where . Because you don't want them to go and tell other people then the next time it may be too crowed to sever you. Or they may be out of that particular brand. That you have become so fond of.
            Well the same thing kind of applies. You don't want anybody to enjoy the same enjoying fulfillment in the same place with the same person you did. That's why it's called a secret. If a producer has a singer that they are bringing out. If they are smart. they will make sure all contracts are signed and gone through the proper channels before the public gets to see or hear them. So nobody can steal the singer.
             A inventor gets everything copy written before they let people know about it. Or somebody just might steal it and make it their own. So it's a secret until you make it public knowledge.
            Now with sex it is a little different but in a sense the same. You can find this over whelming sexual creature. That makes you feel so sexually invigorating, that you want to tell somebody how amazing it is. But out of respect for that Cupcake or Candy bar you can't. Be it that you are still new to each other . Or that you just don't want anybody to try and steal what you have. Before you have decided where you are going in the relationship.  Or if you have anything past great sex. Now if this Cupcake or Candy bar is made from scratch with all the fixings. Like a holiday meal. You don't want it to get away.
             Now lets say this fine desert belongs to another display case. You have be enjoying the sweets of these fine deserts. For what ever the reason is . It's not for me to say. Be it once or many times over.  Knowing that you can not tell anybody. May be hard but you do it. But the more you have. the more you want to tell somebody. You both know what will happen if the secret recipe gets out in the open. So you try to keep it in a safe place. Keeping in mind not to go anyplace you could be recognized. Never to be in the company of the other's display case keeper. Reason being, you will be attentive to each other/ or be awkwardly rude for no reason. Or you just may say or do something. That will appear odd to the keeper but very normal to the desert. Now if it's only over the phone or via internet. I would say just be careful. There are a lot of Crazy people out there.
           I can not say if it's right or wrong to have secret sex lives. All I can say is this. Remember that there is more than just the 2 of you that can get hurt in this secret society. The in the know & The don't know. Have sex responsibly and be ready and prepared for what can happen if the recipe gets out. I hope this answers you questions.
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