OK I get it times have changed. But when you think about it in the hearts of love 10 years is not that long, in fact it seems to fly bye in half the time. So your thinking to yourself where is she going with this. The answer is very simple. If you have not done it yet. RENEW!!!!!
What do I mean by Renew? I mean everything! How often do you change your curtains in your house or how about your bathroom or bed room decor. If your car is not working the way it use to. You fix it, Right? So why not fix the one thing that means more to you than any of those things. The most precious thing in your life,your lover of many years and or husband or wife. So why not Renew that relationship.
Sometimes small steps work like going out on dates again. I mean a real date when you call your lover and ask if they are busy. On Friday night if they would like to go to the movie with you. Or how about there is a new restaurant that just opened up would you like to go to dinner and check it out. Now make it a real date. Get dressed bring flowers or a card. Act like you never went out together. Try showing them a good time. Remember to turn off your cell phone. Don't check your social media on the date. Stay focused, its not helping to renew anything. Remember it's about the 2 of you.While you are out drop a hint about Renewing your vows. Not a full blown conversation. Save that for another time . Just ask what they think about it.
Even if you are going to a small chapel with just a hand full of people. Or in your backyard garden style. Nothing that would break the bank. But something to show your lover that you are willing to go that extra mile to try and get that special thing back.You know, that thing that made the two of you fall in Love in the first place. You remember that kiss don't you? The one that seems like it took forever to say good night. What is it that made you rush to get ready for a date with them?You may have had less money then. Or a not so nice job or car. But you had a very special kind of feeling when you were in each others presents. I see your memory film playing in your head. What is the name of the cologne you wore that turned them into a octopus?Do you see where I'm going with this yet? Now your gonna say that you don't have the time or you don't have the money or when it's just too short of a notice. Do you know what you are doing now it's commonly known as MAKING UP EXCUSES!!!!! You can find the time if you want it. It really only takes 60 days to pull it off. To be truthful with you. Also it would be a lot of fun.Because Love is supposed to be fun.
Now if your not married you should plan a trip away from your every day life style or plan a party and invite a hand full of friends so you can connect your energy. You'll hear what other couples are doing and get some ideas of your own to pick up your relationship.
Email me if you need a little more help and invite me to some of your social gatherings. If time permits I will attend. My email is letstalklikeadultssw@gmail.com. Good luck and remember to have Sex Responsibly.
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