How Important Is Sex In A Great Relationship Or Is It Important At All

           If you are in a relationship with somebody you love and you don't think its important. You are in for a rude awaking. Is it the most important part of a healthy relationship. What do you think? Let me share some information  with you. Now  I would like to know how you feel. So please feel free to leave a comment below. It took me a minute to figure out they to answer a question from a email as well as write this column.I know it's more than one couple going through this
            So why don't we start at the beginning. When you and your mate first started being intimate  you could not get enough of each other .Things seem to be perfect. Time passes and somethings in your life changed. It's apart of life we all know that. Right? So what happens next happens in bedrooms all across the world. Everything else becomes more important. It seems other things take precedent over your sex life. You are not in this boat alone. The thing you have to remember is that is dose not have to be that way.
             Sex provides an important time-out from the stresses and strain of a fast paced world we all live in. It also adds a quality of intimate closeness that is important in a healthy relationship.Sex is also a great exercise for our heart, circulation of blood flow in the body. It's also a act of sharing a symbolic act of trust.
             I'm not saying that sex is everything but it is a big part of a relationship. For some people it's only about 10% on the important scale  for some people it about 30%. Now you have some couples that say sex is around 75% of their relationship on the important scale. I can hear you all saying things like, They must be in bed all the time. Or they must not have anything going on in their life. You would be wrong on both statements. They say that large percent because of the lack of sex in the relationship. So it seems like a big part of what keeps them connected to each other is missing.
             A good healthy sex life can make you feel more relaxed, accepted and more involved in your partner's life.But when sexual activity and intimacy is missing. Believe it or not it becomes a big focus of the relationship. You will find out after a while problems will start to appear out of no place. Feelings of doubt, mistrust, and destructive behavior often sleep in the same bed.  If you have not been active. Get active small things can mean a lot when it comes to saving your relationship.
              Remember to be kind to your mate as you want them to be to you life is too short. You don't want to waste it on something as small as a misunderstanding. Or not understanding how important a touch can be.
                 As always have sex responsibly and remember Stormy Weather 69 Loves You