By The Way Did You Notice?

     So your trying to understand why in the world would you be looking at this bank clerk in a lust full way. Now I know your in a committed relationship and clerks are probably polite to all the customers that come to their counter. So then why are you feeling like your special at this very moment. Because they asked how was your day going? They probably make small talk with everybody it's a bank. Right! Well yes and no, Yes it's their job to be welcoming to the customers . But No you put  a little extra time into yourself today. But your mate didn't even notice did they? So of course it's nice to get a genuine complement from some body. So then why are you feeling so good about it? OK so you stopped to grab some gas and as you walk in to pay for your gas. Again you get paid  another complement. But this one was different you both are regular customers in a gas station. You both are standing in line. Now your talking to each other about the weather. Now your having small talk.
       You are receiving a little more compliments ,here and there but your only noticing it because of what is going unnoticed at home. Am I saying your not loved at home ? Not at all . What I'm saying is that when your not being noticed at home sometimes small things can mean a lot. It dose not matter if your a man or a woman. A compliment from the person you love means more coming from them than it dose from a stranger. But if your not paying attention to your mate. Somebody will be happy to do it for you. Am I saying that every one will be flattered by outsiders? No . Am I saying that your relationship is in trouble when outsiders are paying attention to your mate? No not at all. What I am saying is, If your mate has on a new shirt or changes their hair, has on cologne or perfume say something to complement them. Because when you stop saying sweet things to your mate somebody in a harmless or flirtatious way may very well do it for you.
       Showing your mate that you notice the small things that they do for you and or how they take the time to groom themselves should never go unnoticed by you. Don't let the confusion of a day get in the way of your vision so much that you can't see what is obvious to other people. It's very easy for women to give a complement to a man or a woman. She is pays attention to details. For men it's different. But it boost their ego and confidence when they get noticed. Question , did you complement your mate today? May be somebody did it for you. The day is not over yet.
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