Sex is not always what you had originally expected. Or with whom you thought it would be with. Is what this young lady of 56 said to me. But it doesn't necessarily mean that it is totally a bad thing. Sometimes when your not meaning to, you can find yourself in a warm embrace. But it's not with the one your heart wants to be with. It may merely be good luck or fortune for you and the other person. Sometimes you may want or think you want to be with one person. But you were really meant to be with somebody else.
One of the most common things that make two people get together is a lustful attraction. Another thing that can make two people think they are perfect for each other is the sexual connection. But that can also be the thing that clouds your judgment. Because something that feels so good can be the one thing that hurts you. The other thing is when a person knows how to stroke your ego. Or they are attentive to your needs unlike the person you where with before. That extra attention although feels good at the time, can also hurt you.
Let me explain, We as people get caught up in situation's without given any real thought on how it may turn out. Or how it may even effect the other person. But it it doses not work in our favor we can be some of the most ugly, rude and nasty people to be around. Then we start to make other people pay for what we have actually allowed to happen to ourselves.. You can say you can forgive people who have for lack of better words (broke your heart). But you don't in reality, if you are making everybody who comes within a yard of you and says they care for you . Pay for what happen to you by somebody in your past. Then you have not forgiven them for what they have done. Or yourself for allowing it to happen to you when you have control of your emotions.
Now we have some of us who are walking around with this suit of armor on trying to protect themselves from Love and getting their heart broke. But I got News for you . It's not going to work. Why Not? Because if you don't use your heart it will die. If you put up a wire fence feelings can still get in. And truth be told you can not control Love. If you love yourself than that means that some body can and will love you too.
So in short get out there and enjoy life. There is a lot of untapped ground out there and it's yours to hold if you can remember that Happiness,Sex,Companionship & Love is for everyone.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Wednesday, October 19, 2016
Lets Talk Like Adults: True Love Is Not Something You Buy
Lets Talk Like Adults: True Love Is Not Something You Buy: Do you ever think what is your mate thinking when you give them little gifts of affection? Do you ever think what is the last t...
True Love Is Not Something You Buy
Do you ever think what is your mate thinking when you give them little gifts of affection? Do you ever think what is the last thing you brought? Or how can you top the last gift you gave? Or are you one of those people that say I didn't know what to get you so, I brought you a gift card. So that you can go get exactly what you want.
Or maybe all these scenarios are in reverse and it happens to you. Most of the time and you just can't seem to figure out why. When you put so much thought into the gifts you give. Or could it be that the two of you think that you are always buying each other things that you plum run out of things to give. On those special holidays.
Well I'm here to tell you, that you can't let things go on like this any longer. Do you ever think that your gift giving technique. Needs a little more heart in it. Not just ( let me give them something or I will never hear the end of it.)
Some of you think I don't have time to be running around all over the place looking for that perfect gift. Well here is a little free gift from me to you. Now, don't worry it won't back fire on you. You have been together so long. Don't you think it's time to take a interest in your mates interest and not just saying you do?
What are some of the things they say the would like. Or a place that they would like to go to. If truly you can't afford to send them to a place. Create that place in your home, get creative and the way the Internet is now you can google anything. May be it's something easier like she could wish to clone herself. So get her a maid for two days, give her a total break. Unless your willing to do everything and I mean everything . The way that she dose. How about a broad way show. Or a ball game and be happy to enjoy it with them. Send them to a spa. You could get them something that they really want if you just listen to the things they say.
All I'm saying is stop buying things just to say. Hey, I got you this. But really have it. Don't promise to do some thing and then forget it. Or say something came up. You can and will make time for something you want,Right? You also will not be happy until you get what you want. Also stop using sex as the bargaining chip. If they don't do this, Then I won't do that. Or they won't get sex. You two are adults. Please act like it. So please consider that the next time you go to give them something or promise to do something.
It's being a person of your word they want from you. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Stop giving away empty gifts, they cost more than the gifts you buy with no thought and no heart.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly. Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Or maybe all these scenarios are in reverse and it happens to you. Most of the time and you just can't seem to figure out why. When you put so much thought into the gifts you give. Or could it be that the two of you think that you are always buying each other things that you plum run out of things to give. On those special holidays.
Well I'm here to tell you, that you can't let things go on like this any longer. Do you ever think that your gift giving technique. Needs a little more heart in it. Not just ( let me give them something or I will never hear the end of it.)
Some of you think I don't have time to be running around all over the place looking for that perfect gift. Well here is a little free gift from me to you. Now, don't worry it won't back fire on you. You have been together so long. Don't you think it's time to take a interest in your mates interest and not just saying you do?
What are some of the things they say the would like. Or a place that they would like to go to. If truly you can't afford to send them to a place. Create that place in your home, get creative and the way the Internet is now you can google anything. May be it's something easier like she could wish to clone herself. So get her a maid for two days, give her a total break. Unless your willing to do everything and I mean everything . The way that she dose. How about a broad way show. Or a ball game and be happy to enjoy it with them. Send them to a spa. You could get them something that they really want if you just listen to the things they say.
All I'm saying is stop buying things just to say. Hey, I got you this. But really have it. Don't promise to do some thing and then forget it. Or say something came up. You can and will make time for something you want,Right? You also will not be happy until you get what you want. Also stop using sex as the bargaining chip. If they don't do this, Then I won't do that. Or they won't get sex. You two are adults. Please act like it. So please consider that the next time you go to give them something or promise to do something.
It's being a person of your word they want from you. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Stop giving away empty gifts, they cost more than the gifts you buy with no thought and no heart.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly. Love Always Stormy Weather 69
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