Finding Yourself On Unfamiliar Ground

     Sex is not always what you had originally expected. Or with whom you thought it would be with. Is what this young lady of 56 said to me. But it doesn't necessarily mean that it is totally a bad thing. Sometimes when your not meaning to, you can find yourself in a warm embrace. But it's not with the one your heart wants to be with. It may merely be good luck or fortune for you and the other person.  Sometimes you may want or think you want to be with one person. But you were really meant to be with somebody else.
        One of the most common things that make two people get together is a lustful attraction. Another thing  that can make two people think they are perfect for each other is the sexual connection. But that can also be the thing that clouds your judgment. Because something that feels so good can be the one thing that hurts you.  The other thing is when a person knows how to stroke your ego. Or they are attentive to your needs unlike the person you where with before. That extra attention although feels good at the time, can also hurt you.
         Let me explain, We as people get caught up in situation's without given any real thought on how it may turn out. Or how it may even effect the other person. But it it doses not work in our favor we can be some of the most ugly, rude and nasty people to be around. Then we start to make other people pay for what we have actually allowed to happen to ourselves.. You can say you can forgive people who have for lack of  better words (broke your heart). But you don't in reality, if you are making everybody who comes within a yard of you and says they care for you . Pay for what happen to you by somebody in your past. Then you have not forgiven them for what they have done. Or yourself for allowing it to happen to you when you have control of your emotions.
          Now we have some of us who are walking around with this suit of armor on trying to protect themselves from Love and getting their heart broke. But I got News for you . It's not going to work. Why Not? Because if you don't use your heart it will die. If you put up a wire fence feelings can still get in. And truth be told you can not control Love. If you love yourself than that means that some body can and will love you too.
          So in short get out there and enjoy life. There is a lot of untapped ground out there and it's yours to hold if you can remember that Happiness,Sex,Companionship & Love is for everyone.
                    As Always Have Sex Responsibly
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