Do you ever think what is your mate thinking when you give them little gifts of affection? Do you ever think what is the last thing you brought? Or how can you top the last gift you gave? Or are you one of those people that say I didn't know what to get you so, I brought you a gift card. So that you can go get exactly what you want.
Or maybe all these scenarios are in reverse and it happens to you. Most of the time and you just can't seem to figure out why. When you put so much thought into the gifts you give. Or could it be that the two of you think that you are always buying each other things that you plum run out of things to give. On those special holidays.
Well I'm here to tell you, that you can't let things go on like this any longer. Do you ever think that your gift giving technique. Needs a little more heart in it. Not just ( let me give them something or I will never hear the end of it.)
Some of you think I don't have time to be running around all over the place looking for that perfect gift. Well here is a little free gift from me to you. Now, don't worry it won't back fire on you. You have been together so long. Don't you think it's time to take a interest in your mates interest and not just saying you do?
What are some of the things they say the would like. Or a place that they would like to go to. If truly you can't afford to send them to a place. Create that place in your home, get creative and the way the Internet is now you can google anything. May be it's something easier like she could wish to clone herself. So get her a maid for two days, give her a total break. Unless your willing to do everything and I mean everything . The way that she dose. How about a broad way show. Or a ball game and be happy to enjoy it with them. Send them to a spa. You could get them something that they really want if you just listen to the things they say.
All I'm saying is stop buying things just to say. Hey, I got you this. But really have it. Don't promise to do some thing and then forget it. Or say something came up. You can and will make time for something you want,Right? You also will not be happy until you get what you want. Also stop using sex as the bargaining chip. If they don't do this, Then I won't do that. Or they won't get sex. You two are adults. Please act like it. So please consider that the next time you go to give them something or promise to do something.
It's being a person of your word they want from you. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Stop giving away empty gifts, they cost more than the gifts you buy with no thought and no heart.
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