Do You Tell Your Current Lover You Still Think Of A Past Lover ?

            Why do people ask questions of their current lover that they truly don't want the answer to. Just think about it for a minute. How much about your lovers past ,do you really want to know? Keep this in mind, no matter how many years you have been together or how many lovers your lover has had . You really don't want to know. Anything that has happen in the past needs to stay in the past.
         Now don't get me wrong we are a creature of habit. But we are also creatures that can learn new things if taught. We are also into challenges,taking titles and breaking records. That is the nature of the beast.That is why when you bump into a EX. They think it's cute to say" am I still the best you ever had" . Or dose your current lover know you like to do this or that?. Or dose your current lover satisfy you or make you happy.
          Phrases like that come out because they want to know if they have a chance to get down with you once more . Even if it is just for sex.Because nobody wants to be replaced at any level. You and I both know we like to think that our past lovers still think about us or how we treated them in the past.Or how hard is it for them to contain themselves when they see you.Or on the other hand when you see them. For some of us it's a ego thing and For others it's pride. No matter. It happens to everybody at one time or another.
           The real truth is what you should be concerning yourself with is the here and now. And if there is any health situations or issues you should know about. Facts about their past lovers are not really a factor unless it's going to effect your relationship with your lover now. You Know like children or property you may have together or even credit cards.
              If you feel as though your lover is not going to be satisfying to your needs it's best that you try and talk about it. Maybe you can come to some common ground. But to be constantly bringing up past lovers is wrong. Also comparing lovers is also wrong.Trying to compete with past lovers is crazy.You are a individual stand your ground. If they want the past lover in the present relationship they are in with you. Open the door and let them go. Because as a couple you can't grow with that lingering around. Just a little food for thought.
                As always have sex responsibly.
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