I know that a lot of people have many different views on the subject. but let me shed a little light on the matter. Every thing can have it's own pros's and con's to it . First some people feel that this is something that young kids do. Let me just say that kids have no business sexting. They are not ready for this . There are too many things that can happen to them. They are not prepared or in a mental state of mind to handle this. That's why they keep getting in trouble . But this is not about kids stuff. If you are in a relationship and the two of you get turned on by little sexy messages that come through your phone and it puts a smile on your face. Than what's wrong with that. If you send each other snap shots of what's waiting for them when you get together. What's the harm. If it helps heat up your sex life . Then by all means do it. Within reason!!!
It's no different than having phone sex with your mate over the phone when you can't be together. You both enjoy that don't you? Of course you do then why should you not enjoy this. The only thing is that you need to make sure that the text is only going to your lover. AND NEVER USE YOUR COMPUTER FOR SEXTING. Now back to what I was saying.You would be horrified if the text went to your mother or worse your mother-in law. If the text accidentally went to a friend. As long as there was no pictures attached to the text you will be fine. You may be a little embarrassed be you may just get a little giggle out of it . Then everything will be fine. You may even help your friend get a little sexting going on in their own relationship. So it's important to pay attention to who you send your sexting to.
Next the key is the follow through. If your going to get your mate hot and turned on . It would be a great thing to follow through with what you sent in the text. For some couples it adds a little steam to the pot of sexiness. It also helps people say in sexting what they can't seem to say in person. It may also tell you what your mate really wants.
You also need to know your mate. What do I mean by that? Know that they would never show the sexting conversation that you two enjoyed with anybody. Or what was the point. It's no longer personal. It's no longer about the two of you, and you may even be embarrassed. Now other people will know your most private thoughts between the two of you. But the worst of it all is that sending sexual content is one thing. But pictures is a whole other horse of a different color. People can snatch your pictures out of the Internet and do goodness only knows what. So be careful about that part of it. There are a lot of jerks in the world.
The last thing I'm going to tell you and that is don't let it take the place of real body to body contact. It should never be the replacement of making love to your mate.
As always have sex responsibly
Love always Stormy Weather 69
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