What Team Do You Play For ? What Is Your Position? Do You Know?

                   Home Team &  Away Team, some people have a very hard time in the positions they play. To be perfectly honest I don't think the team members change a lot but the positions can change often. But I have notice that in some cases the position would not change if the team members would just do what they say. As well as say what they mean. That way nobody can expect more from you than what your position  entails. This would also include what you do ,what you show and what you tell the away team.
                 Now some of my Candy bars are saying Stormy, I do tell the away Cupcake what's up. But they get all hung up in their feelings. Then they start to put demands on a Candy bar.  Now some of my Cupcakes say they don't understand how the away Candy bars can get it messed up. They knew the deal when they started  getting cupcakes from the bakery.
                 Well let me put a line on the board for both sides it may even help you to put a chart in your calendar book, phone,tablet or computer or what have you. Because shit is about to get Real .
First of all if you are not in need of the graph. Shut The Hell Up. This is not for you. This is for the ones who need it. This is a judgment free zone here. So keep your ugly comments to yourself. Or email them to me directly. I can handle them better.
                  Some people have had 2 teams for years. They just get a little mixed up on the plays some times. That is why they are running into problems. They are not as young as they use to be. So playing on both teams can make you tired faster than it use to,like when you where young. (hint hint)
                 Anyway back to the lesson at hand. If you say to a team member that you are going to do something. It would make real good sense to do it. Because they may already have a team member that can't keep their word. You don't want to be lumped in the same category with them. Your trying to stay ahead of the new draft pick. For example If you say your coming over and your not going to make it call them or text them. That is simple common courtesy. Because if they did it to you. You would have a attitude. If you say your going to cook dinner, Damn it!!cook what is so hard? Don't tell your team mate you will fix something if you are not. And stop using the excuse you got busy or you forgot. Because when you want some sweets you want them. Right? Exactly!
                If your play time is for sex only and nothing else. Say so but remember They can always get that on the Home Team. Remember they fix you a cup of tea or coffee because they like spending time with you. They ask you to have lunch because they like spending time with you. When they ask you to help them with the garden. They want to spend time with you. When they ask you to go to the gym they want to share a interest with you. They are not asking the home team . They are tired of the excuses. Again if it's only about sex say so. Don't tell them your going to do something or be somewhere if you are not. And if you want off the team.  Don't f**k up the play and blow the game. Talk to your team playmate they can already see that your head is not in the game. They can also see that you can make time to play if you really want to.
               As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
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Sexting Is Not For Children , Just The Young At Heart

        I know that a lot of people have many different views on the subject. but let me shed a little light on the matter. Every thing can have it's own pros's and con's to it . First some people feel that this is something that young kids do. Let me just say that kids have no business sexting. They are not ready for this . There are too many things that can happen to them. They are not prepared or in a mental state of mind to handle this. That's why they keep getting in trouble . But this is not about kids stuff.  If you are in a relationship and the two of you get turned on by little sexy messages that come through your phone and it puts a smile on your face. Than what's wrong with that. If you send each other snap shots of what's waiting for them when you get together. What's the harm. If it helps heat up your sex life . Then by all means do it. Within reason!!!
        It's no different than having phone sex with your mate over the phone when you can't be together. You both enjoy that don't you? Of course you do then why should you not enjoy this.  The only thing is that you need to make sure that the text is only going to your lover. AND NEVER USE YOUR COMPUTER FOR SEXTING. Now back to what I was saying.You would be horrified if the text went to your mother or worse your mother-in law. If the text accidentally went to a friend. As long as there was no pictures attached to the text you will be fine. You may be a little embarrassed be you may just get a little giggle out of it . Then everything will be fine. You may even help your friend get a little sexting going on in their own relationship. So it's important to pay attention to who you send your sexting to.
        Next the key is the follow through. If your going to get your mate hot and turned on . It would be a great thing to follow through with what you sent in the text. For some couples it adds a little steam to the pot of sexiness. It also helps people say in  sexting what they can't seem to say in person. It may also tell you what your mate really wants.
         You also need to know your mate. What do I mean by that? Know that they would never show the sexting conversation that you two enjoyed with anybody. Or what was the point. It's no longer personal. It's no longer about the two of you, and you may even be embarrassed.  Now other people will know your most private thoughts between the two of you. But the worst of it all is that sending sexual content is one thing. But pictures is a whole other horse of a different color. People can snatch your pictures out of the Internet and do goodness only knows what. So be careful about that part of it. There are a lot of jerks in the world.
          The last thing I'm going to tell you and that is don't let it take the place of real body to body contact. It should never be the replacement of making love to your mate.
           As always have sex responsibly  
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Do You Tell Your Current Lover You Still Think Of A Past Lover ?

            Why do people ask questions of their current lover that they truly don't want the answer to. Just think about it for a minute. How much about your lovers past ,do you really want to know? Keep this in mind, no matter how many years you have been together or how many lovers your lover has had . You really don't want to know. Anything that has happen in the past needs to stay in the past.
         Now don't get me wrong we are a creature of habit. But we are also creatures that can learn new things if taught. We are also into challenges,taking titles and breaking records. That is the nature of the beast.That is why when you bump into a EX. They think it's cute to say" am I still the best you ever had" . Or dose your current lover know you like to do this or that?. Or dose your current lover satisfy you or make you happy.
          Phrases like that come out because they want to know if they have a chance to get down with you once more . Even if it is just for sex.Because nobody wants to be replaced at any level. You and I both know we like to think that our past lovers still think about us or how we treated them in the past.Or how hard is it for them to contain themselves when they see you.Or on the other hand when you see them. For some of us it's a ego thing and For others it's pride. No matter. It happens to everybody at one time or another.
           The real truth is what you should be concerning yourself with is the here and now. And if there is any health situations or issues you should know about. Facts about their past lovers are not really a factor unless it's going to effect your relationship with your lover now. You Know like children or property you may have together or even credit cards.
              If you feel as though your lover is not going to be satisfying to your needs it's best that you try and talk about it. Maybe you can come to some common ground. But to be constantly bringing up past lovers is wrong. Also comparing lovers is also wrong.Trying to compete with past lovers is crazy.You are a individual stand your ground. If they want the past lover in the present relationship they are in with you. Open the door and let them go. Because as a couple you can't grow with that lingering around. Just a little food for thought.
                As always have sex responsibly.
                                                 Love Stormy Weather 69