So You Think You Know Your Lover, Wanna Bet !!!

           People always amazed me, They get so full of themselves. Like when they even  give the false impression that they know their lover better than anybody else .  But the truth is that often they are blind to so many things about their lover.  What do I mean by that? It's simple, In so many relationships people hold back a lot. Everything from things that happen in their childhood. To what they are most afraid of. To their deep down dark questions and desires about sex.  Are they totally satisfied sexually with their lover?. Whether or not they are capable of cheating on their current lover / have they ever cheated on their lover?. Or if they think about having extra curriculum sexual experiences?
            Here is a  little truth their secret lover usually know more about their part time lover. Than the main lover or spouse. Now I know you think that I'm wrong. But studies have been done and proven. That it's not a mistake the percentages are astounding. Assuming you know everything about your lover would prove to be a grave mistake on your part. Now don't get to besides yourself and run off and start mouthing off a lot of questions to your lover. That is not the way to bridge the gap or get the questions answered. Your mate has to feel in their heart and soul a great sense of trust, non-judgmental, understanding and unconditional love.
             There must also be a form of openness and exposure of emotions on your part. Nobody wants to be totally exposed with emotions so in order to protect feelings. People keep them hidden from people that can use them as a weapon against them later. It usually is the one that holds their heart in their hands.
               So do you know everything about your lover? The answer is No. And unless you are willing to open your soul and expose everything that makes you who you are . You will never know everything about your lover and who would want to? You have enough to worry about inside of your self. So If they share with you be thankful and respectful. Don't push or dig to hard. You may not like where it leads you.
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