Is It A Catch Phrase Or A Fact ? What You Don't Use You'll Loose

             I know a lot of you readying this may have some strong feelings on this matter. Some of you feel that it all depends on the matter. But not for nothing you may want to do your home work on this matter . Because what you don't know . Can and will hurt you. When it comes to pleasing your mate.
              Now!! some of you may say . "It's been working all this time I'm good " or  " They can take what I got to give  and be happy" or "If it not broke don't fix it" and the best 2 are "You don't have to if you don't want to" & "I'm not worried I'm the best you'll  ever have" If your saying it or you have been hearing it. IT'S ALL WRONG !!!! If you believe the phrases than your Crazy!!!!
             You can't think that on either side of the coin. Because we can't see into the future. Also there is always going to be somebody out there with more skills and knowledge than you. Who are willing to do the work and read about that thing , that you don't want to do....
               Which brings us to some real facts. So grab a pin or smart phone and take some notes. It's not that candy bars are always ready for sex. Some times it's just that they are not fully satisfied. So they are waiting to finish what they started. So when the opportunity presents it's self they will be ready.To deliver on a dime, regardless who will be there to receive it.
                 Cupcakes are not hard to please . You must pay attention to the signs she is sending. Because if you are on the right track, her body and mouth will tell you. It only seems like work because your not enjoying the pleasure of fine cakes. But leave her alone too long and somebody will frosting her cakes.
                Now sweets as a whole. If you like something and your mate is not doing it. Show them what it is you like. They may not always get it the first time. But with practice, they will more than amaze you. Now if they insist on doing it wrong or flat out don't do it .Keep in mind whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If You stop giving out more than you receive. They will come around. But if you are holding out for no real reason. Or you just think of treats as holiday foods. You may find that you have taken too long. On your delivery.  Now your mate is no longer waiting for you. They have found other treats that are pleasing to them .  It is of course your fault. For not talking to your mate and letting them know what you want and need.   No worries. Somebody will be waiting in the wings to do the job . They will also take great pride in doing the job. I hope you all heard me.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
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