Is Haveing Sex With The Ex Ok?

I often heard from men and women they don't know why they did it. Or, I hear well if they didn't want it then why did they have sex with me again. Or, if their mate was doing their job I would not  have been able to get them in bed in the first place.  Don't leave out the people that say, Hell yeah I had sex with them again it's good. The #1 I like the most is, we were out having a few drinks and one thing just lead to another. These are the same people, that for what ever the reason you are no longer a couple. Why can't you just leave it at that! Is there a real reason why you had sex with them?No!  How are you supposed to move on and mature in life if you keep going back in bed with people from your past. Some people say that they just are not ready to rush into a new relationship with a stranger. You don't have to. But you don't have to have sex with your Ex either. Your adults, act like it. Having sex with your Ex creates more problems than it fixes. The  sexual satisfaction you get from having sex with them is only temporary. The reaction that happens after that sexual encounter has a domino effect. To you it was just sex to them it was different. No matter what the mouth says. By the way,That's also where those Oops babies come from. You know the ones that where in the slow cooker and nobody knew they where there. Until everyone has so called moved on and started a new relationship. Or what about those of you who are in new relationships and the Ex still acts like the 2 of you are a couple. Why because you had sex with them and their feelings got caught and to you it was just sex. All I'm telling you is your Ex is the past for a reason and before you get back into a sexual relationship with them. You need to think why are they the Ex. You better hope that they are not having sex with you for revenge. Sex games can be very Dangerous and they don't always turn out the way you planed. If you can be friends with your Ex great. But lets just leave sex out of the equations. It can have catastrophic effects if your not prepared. I'm all for some good sex. But as a adult we need to have sex  like adults and be responsible. So to answer the question in the title of this column. No! its not OK to have sex with your Ex